2007-03-12 17:02:52 · 8 answers · asked by Charles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
are you the picture of the perfect husband?
maybe that is why she is having fits etc.
and i'll bet that after 15 years you arn't mr. sensitivity to her either.
take a different tack and be nicer than you need to be for starters. cook her a dinner once in a while just for no reason, take her out to the show and a dinner. perhaps she will be a little nicer and do a little sumething for you in return.
don't forget it takes two!!!!
2007-03-12 17:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she may have a serious case of pms. You would not believe what it can do to your personality, You did not say if she is this way everyday or once in a while. I would seek counseling to get to the core of the issue
2007-03-13 00:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by celesta_palmer2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HATE TO SAY THIS BUT - TANTRUMS AT HER AGE? IS SHE DEPRESSED OR HAS THIS BEEN ON GOING? THERE COULD BE AN IMBALANCE. OR MAYBE SHE HAS JUST FORGOTTEN WHAT YOUR UNION WAS ABOUT. IF YOU FEEL THAT SHE CAN TALK TO YOU RATIONALLY I WOULD TRY TO KINDLY WITHOUT ACCUSATIONS, RATIONALIZE WITH HER. IF NOT POSSIBLE I WOULD SAY SUGGEST YOU TWO SEE A COUNSELOR TO TRY AND UNDERSTAND EACH OTHERS VIEWS AND TRY AND REMEDY YOUR ISSUES. COMMUNICATION IS ESSENTIAL. AND AS ANY WOMAN KNOWS, A MAN NEEDS TO KNOW THAT HE IS CARED FOR AND APPRECIATED. OTHERWISE WHY BE MARRIED- RIGHT! ? MUCH LUCK TO YOU.
2007-03-13 00:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jenblossom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be Borderline Personality Disorder. Check out this site to see if she fits the description. It could help you to know, because then you might understand what you're up against.
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/publicat/bpd.cfm
2007-03-13 00:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Plexed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she has always been this way, it is unlikely she will change. Try talking to her. Maybe she will get counseling. Maybe if she knows how you feel she will get help.
2007-03-13 00:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work with her, to get over them and try and help her understand your there for her.
2007-03-13 00:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You trained her. She knows you'll deal with it.
2007-03-13 00:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is going threw menopause that will make you crabby
2007-03-16 23:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋