My husband is overseas and he is due back in september, but I miss him so much. How do I keep the relationship spicy? Weve been married for about a year, I mean our sex life is awesome, but how can I keep that going for the next 6 months?
2007-03-12 16:57:00 · 11 answers · asked by sckr4luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Umm mine is gone to and due back in October, we have alot of fun talk online, you know where I am going with that.. And a trip to your local sex store dont hurt, it is kinda interesting if you ask me to see what is there, just get what you think you would like.. Dont tell him until AFTER (lol) you used it, and if he has his own cell phone, well we use those to sometimes just talking and talking about what we miss and would do... good luck girl... be careful you are going to get some bad answers.... I see it happening
2007-03-12 17:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a part of a marriage but not every thing. Write your feelings, longings and needs for him in a letter, schedule a "spicy" call, send him perfumed letters, suggestive pictures and most of all keep HIM on your mind. Do not another move in and let a short term fling hurt a life long love.
2007-03-13 00:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by mizzmel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email him constantly, or write him constantly, send him anything he needs and something extra. send him lot of pictures of yourself and if you are comfortable sexy pictures he will love that. Lots and lots of sexy pictures. Let him know that you love him and that you are here waiting for him. Never forget to say that belive me it doesn't get old. Tell him that he is the only one. Cause even if he is not a jealous guy he will get jealous. Let him know about your days. When you talk to him talk about the future that will get his mind of off the bad stuff. Tell him what you want going to do to him when he gets back. And also I think this is the most important support him tell him that you support him and that you are proud of him.
hope this helps!
2007-03-13 00:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by Moni0718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, the BEST thing you can do for your hubby is be your true self...you obviously love him so just show him. But why settle for just 6 months? he might get deployed again in that time, but show him that who he finds here at home now will be the same sexy, loving, caring wife WHENEVER he comes home.
And.....I thank you and your husband for your collective service to our great nation! You're both courageous! I pray he returns safe and sound to the wonderful lady, wife and family waiting for him at home.
2007-03-13 00:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by GAValkRider 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is gone for that long there is not to much for you to do but be you...he will thirst for you like ice cold glass of water on a hundred and five degree Texas day.
2007-03-13 00:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by coolwater792 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that must be really tough. =[
well just have trust in one another and call him when you can and talk or email eachother etc.
Tell him how much you miss him and how much you love him.
that way he wont think anything is wrong. And never cheat PLEASE. When he come back have the spicyest sex ever. =]
2007-03-13 00:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him letters, but don't mail them and let him read them when he gets back, write about all the crazy stuff you miss about him. Improve yourself while he is gone, new hair style, work out. you both will feel like you just met and it could be wild!
2007-03-13 00:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Vegas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do, don't cheat. Now, for maintaining the relationship. Just think of how it would be like when he has been waiting for you for six months.
2007-03-13 00:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by Nea'A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE ABLE TO EMAIL EACH OTHER, TRY EMAIL SEX (KIND OF LIKE PHONE SEX?) MY HUBBY IS FIXING TO LEAVE FOR 4 MNTHS AND I'M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT THE SAMETHING
2007-03-13 00:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take sexy pictures of yourself and send them to him, just to keep him going
2007-03-13 00:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋