how do i tell my boyfriend that im pregnant?

Question

im 16 and my boyfriend is 16 fin to be 17.and i was 1 week late on my period.... then i came on my period but i was not a normal period.so i took a pregnancy test a week later.......got a positive. now i need some advice on how to tell my boyfriend im pregnant. we have been together for over 1 year,and he's my first. so i need some advice quick

Answer 1

That's a tough thing to do and I hope for your sake that he's mature enough to handle it. I know this probably isn't what you want to hear but you're just going to have to come out and tell him there really is no other way to do it. Make sure he knows that what you are going to tell him is important you might also make sure he is sitting down tell him you need to talk and tell him. I would tell him in person too. That isn't really something you tell your partner over the phone or anything like that.

I hope everything works out for the best for you :)

Answer 2

You go to your boyfriend and say, I am pregnant, simple as that and then you need to tell your parents right away. There will be hell to pay and you need to make the decision with your parents whether or not to keep the baby or else. Both of you are too young to raise a baby, even if you think, "no problem", it is a problem. A baby cost a lot of money and time which you should rather use on your education.Telling you that you should have practiced safe sex is too late, just remember that for your future

Answer 3

Just tell him. Get it out in the open. There's nothing you can do about it now. Its the best thing to do. You are young. You need to find a good church or support system to help you out. But whatever you do, take care of that baby the best that you can, when it gets here. This is a major thing that's happening in your life. Its time to make some life changes.

Answer 4

well there is no easy way to tell him, when i told my boyfriend (now my husband) that i was preg. he cried like a baby and freaked out at first. but just tell him you need to talk to him about something just the two of you and sit down tell him you love him and then plunge ahead. HE WILL FREAK OUT, don't worry this IS normal. i'm sure you did too. it doesn't mean he doesn't love you or anything like that; to be quite honest i would be worried if he didn't freak out just a little bit. but just be honest let him see your fears and your love for him, and he'll take it all in stride if he's even a half way decent guy. GOOD LUCK

Answer 5

I would go to the doctor before I told him to make sure that you are 100% because you might have a false postive. If he really loves you than he will understand but to be honest, most boys his age, despite there love, arent ready and will bale. I would tell your parents as well so that they can be there for you if he doesnt want to be. You need to tell them anyways but this way you arent going though it alone.

Answer 6

Okay first, he's not going to be your b/f much longer. Statistically when a teenaged boy finds out he's going to be a daddy, he bugs out. I think that boys are smarter than girls...they understand that minor children should not be raising minor children. He'll probably tell you to have an abortion. A bad idea, by the way.
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Answer 7

It depends on how understanding he is. I think the best way would be to sit down with him, and have a serious discussion, where you talk about the baby, and where you will take things from here. If he loves you, he wont react badly.

Answer 8

Well, I think you should consider whether or not you want to tell him. Do you have college plans? What kind of future are you going to have together? Are you going to marry him? You don't have to if you don't want to.

Is he smart? Does he have his act together? Can he provide for this kid? Does he have any plans higher than shift manager at Taco Bell?

Your parents are going to know, he's probably going to find out. Who do you want to tell first?

Answer 9

oh you poor thing i think you should go to a public place one where he cant freak out as much i woudnt expect a good reaction from him im just saying some guys react horribly and some act fine but after the baby is born they dont feel as fine with it as they were so watch out with this

Answer 10

Just tell him unless he is abusive to you. If that is the case, then find a different boyfriend because he won't be around for you and the baby anyway.