I have a friend that always gets mad at me. How do I get it to stop?

Question

I have this one friend who always gets mad at me for everything that i do. one time i didn't say hi to her in the lunch line and she got mad at me. she is a really good friend and i don't want to lose her. please don't tell me not to be her friend because i will always be her friend. how do i make her happy? i am always there for her but i guess it is not good enough. please help me!!!

Answer 1

I have the same problem! What I did is I talked to my friend at a time that we were both alone together. I told her that I really thought of her as a great friend and that I didn't mean to hurt her feelings but that she sometimes was very sensitive about certain things I couldn't help. I explained some of the times I had hurt her feelings like a time when she was upset that I didn't pick her in my group in Track & field or didn't send her a candy cane gram for Christmas in school, and I explained that all of these things were not on purpose but on accedent or something I forgot to do but that I hd ment to do these things for her . Your friend like mine have the same thing in common; they depend too much on us I guess to make them feel supported and becuse they are WAY to sensitive in general.Just explain to her that you are always there for her whatever the case. Talking and explaining things out to one another really helps for all grl glitches. It was hard to really explain this all into words to you but as soon as you talk to your friend about how you feel, Im sure it will all make sense to you both. Good luck to you and your friend~

Answer 2

First off you need to relax. Don't get yourself stressed out over this. It happens in a lot of friendships. If people have told you to not be her friend, that's not right. No one should ever tell you who and who not to be friends with. Really all you have to do is sit down with her and talk with her. Tell her how you feel straight out. Don't hide anything about what you've been feeling. That could cause problems later on if you do. Don't be afraid to talk to her. If she is a good friend of yours and she the same with you she will understand and you two could find a way to make it better. Remember lay it all out. Don't keep anything inside.

Answer 3

How do you make her happy? You evidently can not make her happy. I would suggest you have a heart to heart conversation with her and ask her why she always gets mad at you. Let her know how you feel when she acts that way. That should do it. Be real and don't hold anything back

Answer 4

Well did you try talking to her? Ask her whats the problem is, because if you don't know you wont be able to fix it. Ask her if something is bothering her, because it might not be that you are doing something wrong, but something else is making her act the way she does. I am really glad to hear though that despite everything you still want to be friends with her! Good luck!

Answer 5

This is not your fault. This is her inability to communicate her feelings in a constructive way. I would walk away every time she blows up over nothing. If she wants to know why tell her that you feel hurt when she gets mad over something you didn't even realize you did. If she won't talk to you about it you're better off without her.

Answer 6

ask her what is her deal? ask her why is it that everything you do she has to comment on?

maybe no one has confronted her with that side of her personality. so you do her the favor by holding up the mirror.

if you want to remain friends with her then that's on you, but a friend is a friend is a friend. she sounds like she needs fine-tuning in the friendship department to tell you the truth. I, for one couldn't deal with her personality. good luck!

Answer 7

stop pizzing her off