Well my friend and I have this friends with benefits thing going on. We have had it for about 3 yrs now, but now I am pregnant. How do I tell him?
2007-03-12 16:17:05 · 19 answers · asked by taechan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i feel for you sweetie. i went through the same thing. i just took a pregnancy test, told him to close his eyes and hold out his hands. i gave it to him and i walked away and let him think it over for a little bit before i tried to talk to him. he was fine with it. dont try to rush into any huge conversations for a few minutes and let it settle in his head that his life is going to dramatically change. it is going to be a huge surprise so dont get mad if he seems upset. its not your fault, its just his way of getting over the shock. relax, take a deep breath and if he cares about you he will understand. good luck hunnie!
2007-03-12 17:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do it naked. No not really, but i always have wanted to try that. I would ask him what he would do if you ever did get prego-that will send up a red flag for him, and the convo will guide itself down the right path. When my husband and I were dating, the day after our *first time* i asked him what he would do, he said he would just be a daddy, and help where he could reguardless of whether we married or split. Thats one of the reasons i fell for him-you may find with this friend, he is just the guy for the job!
2007-03-12 17:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by bluejeanwifey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if this has been going on for 3 years you guys must care about each other...(at least it is not a one night stand with just that a one night stand) Just tell him. Good Luck and God Bless.
2007-03-12 16:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by triplep_01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gurl honesty is the best way out. Don't hide it , come out straight. Remember u both enjoyed it for 3 yrs so he will do the responsible thing.
2007-03-12 16:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Gillan B 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, its not really a one night stand if its been going on for that long. Just say this exactly, "Im pregnant"...It's not that hard telling him. Its what you think his reaction may be thats worrysome. Also, remember that not only did your fling cause him to be a daddy...HE'S causing you to be a mommy!
2007-03-12 18:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by YaShen 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You will just have to tell him the truth - if two people are having a sexual relationship, no matter what the relationship you share is, they have to accept the circumstances that may arise.
2007-03-12 22:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men say that form of stuff because of the fact, first they desire the intercourse and 2d they desire the female to sense good relating to the intimacy. that's barely words, extra effective customary as pillow talk. in line with danger you will possibly be able to desire to think of before you leap into mattress with a guy, enormously with the STD's and AIDS
2016-10-18 06:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open you mouth, move your tongue, put your brain into gear and say "you is going to be a daddy"!
Simple!
He put it there at the end of the day!
2007-03-12 16:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Welshchick 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Come on out and tell him is the best answer I can give..
2007-03-12 16:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by auntietawnie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that....Just call him and tell him that you are pregnant.....give him a positive pregnancy test.....tell him ooops we messed up now...
2007-03-12 16:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋