2007-03-12 16:02:11 · 23 answers · asked by rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, there's no such thing as a perfect anything. If you've already attracted a guy and are to the point where you're thinking about marriage, then you should know each other well enough that you just make him happy by being yourself. Whatever you do to make him happy should also feel good to you. Never do something to make him happy if that something bothers you. If you used to be happy and you aren't anymore, try and figure out when it began to change. Odds are that if you can find out what changed, then you both (yes, you AND him together) can probably figure out a way to fix it. It's important to make your man happy, but its also important that he makes you happy. A relationship is about give and take, and one person shouldn't be doing the lion's share of the work.
A few little tips and suggestions that might help if you just want to brighten his mood:
* kiss him (if the place and time is right, reeeaaallly kiss him)
* cook him something special
* rub his back becuase you want to, not because he asks you to
* get close. Snuggles, cuddles and the like are always nice.
* be a gentlewoman. go grab something from the fridge, ask him if he needs anything (be sincere, and DONT complain while you do it)
* give him his space. some people are weird and just need it
* TELL him you love him. (i know, big shocker)
* talk to him. he'll never know what you're feeling or what you want if you don't talk. Communication is a huge part of every relationship
* think: bedroom?
2007-03-12 16:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by Danny K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A husband want a woman that can do all the things that he need to get done and don't have time to do. To be a perfect wife we need to read Proverb 31 of the King James version of the bible. That will explain what God say is a perfect wife and if you practice what we read our life will go much better.
2007-03-12 16:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people want someone who is secure in themselves. There is no such thing as a perfect wife or husband. I think you have to be happy with yourself before you can make someone else happy. Its nice to love someone so much that you want to make them happy, but they should be doing the same things for you also.
2007-03-12 16:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every man is different...
Sure, you will get answers, like the first you had (being plenty of sex) but there is more to life than sex and more to a marriage than sex.
If you want to make your husband happy, be yourself. Do little things to show him you care...tuck a note saying you love him into his lunch or call him up at work from time to time to tell him that you love him or that you have a surprise for him when he comes home.
Cook him a nice meal, sit down and watch a movie together, snuggle, make out, make love, whatever you want... but remember one thing: sex will only get you so far, being true to your partner and to your heart will get you further than anything else.
2007-03-12 16:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be happy being yourself, and then your husband should be happy that you are fulfilled. Don't live your life for your husband, live it for you. And, before you get married, discuss what you both expect of each other and your marriage. Make sure that you both understand your role in the marriage (like what he's going to do and what you're going to do, when you want to have kids and how many, etc). Learn everything you can about your spouse, and make sure that you love him. Be yourself!!!!
2007-03-12 16:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jacqui K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the 21st century!!! If you need to be a perfect wife and make him happy - it is up to him to be a perfect husband, and make you happy. It cuts both ways...
2007-03-12 16:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think men want a "Perfect" wife. Men are sure not perfect and they may be intimidated by a perfect spouse. Be a little adventuresome and different, he will probably enjoy you more.
2007-03-12 16:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men want to learn to connect to the soul of their wives but it doesn't come naturally. Happily my wife tells me that I understand her heart and I sometimes move her with the words of love I say to her. The obvious answer is sex more sex but I have found the secret. If you touch a woman's soul she will give you everything, her heart, her soul and her body.
2007-03-12 16:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Be thoughtful, honest and caring. For the right man, that would be the perfect wife.
2007-03-12 16:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by starlight_940 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it varies, since men, contrary to popular opinion, are actually individuals with hearts and minds and souls of their own. The best way to make him happy is to ask him. And remember that you deserve happiness in return.
2007-03-12 16:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Casey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋