i am subconsciously hurting my friends my conscious want them to feel the way i do how do i stop that?

Question

my friend tells me that im hurting my friends and i don't realize it so i started thinking then i realized i had to be subconsciously doing it i don't like to hurt people that is not me how do i control it plz speak simple im 16 and not that smart thanks for your help

Answer 1

Talk to them. Can't say more then that, been there myself. Its coming down to insercurities you have, fight them. The best way is in conversation with you good friends. You start to see how much they care and you'll start to get over your transgressions. It's not that simple really thou its as what you talk about thats going to make the differents. Another thing is trying to understand yourself too, so take sometime out when you can to get to know a little bit more about you and why you get upset with them. Always the point is to be understanding not just of the people around you, but also yourself.