should i
A) call him because i really do love him and i hate us fighting, and when he gets home, talk to him
or
B) treat him the wy hes treating me..
2007-03-12 15:45:42 · 42 answers · asked by Oklahoma Economist 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
A definately A!!!
2007-03-12 15:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by mommyfor4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C. start by treating him the way he's been treating u, just so he realizes how important u r 2 him. then after 3 days call him and do A.
2007-03-12 15:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by dirka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him like that you should talk to him. However, if you don't like the way he's treating you, you really shouldn't be with him to anyway. You shouldn't have to feel as if you need to stoop to his level and treat him bad too.
2007-03-12 15:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
C. talk to him, and find out why he is treating you like this. if you don't like how things are going, then there are options. you can leave, you can take a break from the relationship, you can wait and see what happens, or you can just do nothing. he seems to be abusive, so be careful....
2007-03-12 15:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by sean c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey did the first option and it didn't work.So I did the second option and guess who's crying now? It may not be the best thing to do but it made him see what it feels like to be treated badly.
2007-03-12 15:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by !!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of thing (not that I know exactly what this thing is) is usally more complicated then the two people in the middle of it can really see. Get someone you both trust to mediate if you can.
Either that or just bounce and start over.
2007-03-12 15:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to work things out in a sensible manner. no need for fooling around by doing childish things like revenge (especially if you love him). i am not calling you childish but this is a childish action. talking through it is a much better method of solving problems.
2007-03-13 09:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and talk to him, if you don't at least try you will be miserable, however if he is an *** to you and doesn't try to resolve the problems then put the ball in his court and let him make the next move.
2007-03-12 15:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. FairyLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think you should do?
How would you want to be treated?
What goes over the devils back comes back up under his belly.
2007-03-12 15:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
B. I am going through this same mess now. My boyfriend is driving me crazy. I am starting to treat him how he treats me and he is starting to change.
Good Luck Girl!
: )
2007-03-12 15:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy To Be in April 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
B) Treat him the way he is treating you. I mean why should you suck up to him, more so if he isn't treating you right? As it is said, "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you"
2007-03-12 15:49:27 · answer #11 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋