what should i do? The only thing we haven't done is have intercourse! We go out, 69, etc. I'm so confused! He tells me he likes his g.f., but y is he still doing this with me if he likes her. fyi: We dated for 5 years, he's been dating her for 5 months.
2007-03-12 15:39:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your bf is having his cake and eating it too. You should have enough respect for yourself not to be his "other woman." Tell him if he wants to get back with you then he needs to get rid of his gf and there is no compromise. Neither her, nor you deserve this - but especially not her because she has no idea whats going on.
2007-03-12 15:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him when he is going to ask you to marry him. That should do the trick.
And if you are doing this with him, wouldn't that be a boy friend? Come on, you ask the question because you want people to know you are living a bad episode of a worse soap opera. Get over it, get some self esteem and start living a life, not 90210! (old school reference for everyone else out there thinking the same thing.)
2007-03-12 16:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Scotch Tape 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has only been dating her for 5 months and seeing you, what is to say he wasn't seeing her while seeing you when you were dating.
When a man is really feeling you he doesn't want you to be with anyone else and he isn't being with anyone else.
Don't trick yourself into thinking that he is feeling you extensively, If he was he would just break up with the girl and you all would get back together.
Think about what broke you guys up in the first place..... Force him to make a choice or you make the choice for him!
2007-03-12 15:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Vernita B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump him. He dumped you, but he's keeping you on the side because the new gf isn't putting out. Have some respect for yourself. His actions are saying he doesn't want a relationship with you, so you need to find someone who does. Take charge of your own life because he's just using you.
2007-03-12 17:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off this guy is obviously a pig because he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. But to answer your question, he obviously can't let go of you., He likes this new girl and understands that it didn't work with you all but he is still hanging on
2007-03-12 15:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you! How would you feel if the tables were turned?? Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. What you should do is stay away from him. He's taken. If he wants you enough, he will break it off with her. Otherwise, he's forbidden territory!
2007-03-12 15:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by s w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy, that woman sounds dang annoying... you do no longer cheat on human beings and get into that company in center college. tell her to back her *** off. relish center college, 'reason once you get to intense college, you would be dealing with this kind of stuff lots.
2016-10-18 05:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has his cake, her and eating it too, you! What ever you both couldn't deal with in your relationship that split you apart was one thing but to bring it into another relationship , he being a cheater and you a home wrecker is not the right thing to continue to do....
2007-03-12 15:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is using you until he gets her to put out. Don't be used. I'm sure you would not be happy if the shoe were on the other foot.
2007-03-12 15:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in her shoes you would want someone to tell you, i think you need to tell her. if he even cares about you or her he wouldn't be cheating
2007-03-12 17:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by chp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋