OK heres my 2 cents, I enjoy doing that for my man, don't expect anything in return. I do it because I know it makes him feel good and that makes me feel good. Does your man go down on you? Do you think it's because he wants you to "return the favor"? or because he loves pleasuring you? Do you rub his shoulders sometimes without him even asking? Is there anything you do "just because"? This is just another part of life and if the human race would stop being so selfish and start thinking of their other half first, there would be a lot less divorce. I love my man with all my heart and want him to be happy all the time. I make sacrifices for him with my time, my energy, my mouth...etc. And because I show him I love him, he shows me in return. I don't have to ask for hardly anything from him, he's taken care of it already! Just my 2 cents again...good luck ;) and remember it's not a fight...it's a marriage...that is sacred
2007-03-12 16:55:46
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answered by ivy_trick_mess 4
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It took me awhile to actually enjoy doing this for my man but with much practice, dont ask hehhee, i am now part of the deep throat club. Now swallowing the results....that is a whole other matter that i am not good at. Get some whip cream or pudding or something you like to eat and let your mind go. Pretend he is Tim McGraw or your old boyfriend or maybe even that you are doing this secretly for another man who only you know you are turned on by. Then go at it slow and work your way up, no pun intended. Once you learn to enjoy this for yourself, he will also really appreciate it too. I just came to the conclusion that i love my husband and really do want to please him and he does the same for me. I read up on some ways that men like certain things and just really made it more about me learning a new trick for my man instead of thinking about it as a chore that i dont enjoy. If you two love each other then he will do the same for you...and that is the best part of all.
2007-03-12 15:47:23
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answered by ? 3
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There are some women who do, and there are some women who don't. It just depends on the woman. However, pressuring the woman to keep doing it, may make her not want to do it at all...That's just my 2 cents though.
2007-03-12 15:49:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Well he might be telling the truth or he might be lying to get you to do it. But if you must know - Yes I have, but not with every guy that I have been with I am very picky. If you don't like it email me and I can help you with some ideas on making it easier for you
2007-03-12 15:43:42
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answered by Rosie 4
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a lot of women do just won't admit it as it was told that only nasty girls do that,but if you're married hey if that's what your man wants go for it. it's not for some people but whatever floats your boat i bet you don't say no when he does it to you now is that fair. mst do but won't cop to it. trust me if you don't some else will. that's how most women keep their man. get w/the program sister.
2007-03-12 15:43:55
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answered by freedom fighter 7
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Don't give in because of pressure. The first time I did it was forced. It was a bad experience and I think I'm somewhat scarred (minimum, thank God). With my current boyfriend, I do it whenever I want to. He loves it. We're good :)
2007-03-12 15:44:01
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answered by carrina 2
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I love to give bjs to my hubby. But so what? You have the right to do or not do whatever you want. Don't let him pressure or disrespect you.
2007-03-12 16:08:25
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answered by thedrisin 5
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I do occasionally, because there is never any pressure from my partner for me to do this. I do not particularly enjoy it everytime however, i would give him that pleasure since he is a most accommodating and considerate lover. It is all part of our lovemaking package.
2007-03-12 15:49:06
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answered by ann t 5
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I used to, but it makes my jaws hurt so bad, so now I dont. To be fair to my man I dont expect it in return either.
2007-03-12 16:21:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Guilty But only if he takes a shower b4
2007-03-12 15:40:52
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answered by HunnyBunny 3
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