2007-03-12 15:11:23 · 18 answers · asked by perfectwife06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It does take two to stay a couple - so it's good that you are wondering about this. Hopefully he wonders about you too!
I think the answer is - you ask him.
Are you sure you can handle it if he says "No"?
Start your conversation by saying you noticed this and you felt that and were wondering if he were just OK or really happy.
"Really happy" takes a lot work you know - maybe he's OK with just being OK.
Pick your time to have this conversation - do it on your time not his. What I mean is, don't do it while basketball game is on - do it at a time when a chick movie or show is about to start.
Best wishes.
2007-03-12 15:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, and you can't ask or you look too needy! I feel ya, I ask myself the same question...
So, what I can do is look at his non-verbal actions, like...when he is mad he only makes his side of the bed! Or, when he is happy he will start my car in the morning. See, what I am trying to say is that men (or mine at least) don't say things like "geez babe, I am really happy with our relationship and I want to know how to make it better". It just don't happen like that. They do things like make you a book shelf, or fix the toilet...ya know what I'm saying? The most important thing though if for me to be happy, generally if I am okay with the way our marrage is, he is too...not always but most of the time. Communication before insecurity always is the key. Good luck.
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2015-01-29 15:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him and ask him if he is happy or not... I am sure he will answer this question and tell you... Are you happy in the marriage?
2007-03-12 15:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When are men ever happy in a marriage that's a better question....lol..........
Another question you can ask yourself is are you happy in the marriage!
Communication is very important so you should ask him, sit him down and talk .I myself don't know weather my hubby is happy but I would assume so
because he keeps coming home.lol.......
2007-03-12 16:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sandora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he generally seem happy at home? Is he angry and grouchy?
The answer to that should tell you if he's happily married or not.
2007-03-12 15:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does he know that you are happy in your marriage?
2007-03-12 15:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by XperTeez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
does he act happy? does he seem happy if he does then he is, you could always ask him
2007-03-12 15:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if ur married to him u should know ur husband well enough to tell if he's happy or not only u could tell that i would think
2007-03-12 15:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋