My son's dad and I are no longer togehter b/c he decided to be with an old sleazy woman. But now , he fins out that he don't like her and he misses me and is unhappy. He calls sometimes when she is not around to talk to me and complains that he can't stand her. She is very jealous of me and I have heard her argue with him over talking to me so I know she is.
But it is real ironic to me that now he has to sneak behind her back to call me when he wants to talk to me ( he dosen't when he talks to his our son), It now seems that the shoe is on the other foot and I find it very interesting. Not enough to take him back but it is amusing.
2007-03-12 14:54:35 · 19 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He made his bed, now he has to sleep in it!
2007-03-12 14:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one, you have a child together. So communication is a good thing, as far as our child in concerned. Homeboy doesn't know what he wants. Let him figure out what he wants, while at the same time you find out what you want. It sounds to me like you have moved on pretty well. Yes, it is very ironic, some people get a kick out of what they "can't" have. And now you are the challenge. This man needs to mature. The only contact you should have with him right now should be related to that child alone. Enjoy learning yourself. He may be or may not be what you want in your future. Take some time to figure that out. Keep it amicable for the kids sake.
2007-03-12 22:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, since you have decided not to go back with him, I would tell him that you do not want to hear him complain about this other woman because once upon a time, he was probably saying the same things about you that he is now saying about her. I would leave his negative energy completely out of my life in order to move forward. I understand that you have to communicate with him because of your son but other then that, he made a choice to move on and likewise so should you. From what you are saying, he probably did you a great favor by moving on.
2007-03-12 22:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is now living the life that he left behind for you to live.Maybe he will think about what he has done and see things differently in the future.You are right don't take him back. Let him enjoy the mess he has made.If he is sneaking around behind her back so he can talk to you then this should be a good indication that he hasn't learned his lesson yet.
2007-03-12 22:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A real good example of "what goes around, comes around". Good for you for not taking this snake back. Im really glad youre on here tonight as Ive tried telling women this all the time and they dont believe me this happens so thank you. Im also glad to see your getting joy out of this now. Just be prepared as he willprobably show up on your doorstep on his hands and knees begging you for forgiveness and to take him back. Good luck
2007-03-12 22:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ironic. However I am not surprised. Once a man cheats, he is not likely to change. I would be very clear to him that you have moved on and are on to better things. Let go of this guy, he is emotional baggage and you my friend deserve the best. He is not it. Let the old sleaze have him, sounds like they deserve each other. Good luck.
2007-03-12 22:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by Shyler 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes! What comes around goes around. I am so glad that he misses you now, and that she has to be jealous of you. Keep rubbing in their faces because that is what they deserve. You find a good man who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
2007-03-12 21:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jessie Jo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's confused or he's playing around. And seems to want to go around and see if he can find better. It's like you were his back up. Yes, this is very ironic.
2007-03-12 22:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sagira Tadashi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it's kind of funny, but I wouldn't rush into taking him back; who knows if he'll do the same thing again? The grass isn't always greener on the other side now, is it?
2007-03-12 22:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is hilarious! He is getting what he deserves! He wants you back and can't have you! Now he can know what it feels like to be hurt and unwanted! He should learn to treat people better!
2007-03-12 22:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by love my life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take his phone calls that could really confuse your son if he found out. This guy is a sleez and a loser.
2007-03-12 21:59:04 · answer #11 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋