We were seeing each other 3 or 4 months. We would get together, watch movies at his house, kiss for hours, have s e x, etc. He always wanted me to sleep over and would practically cling to me when I had to leave. He even drove hours to come to my house and would sleep over and cuddle all night and hang out the next day. He even broke plans with his friends to be with me. And when we were apart we would email back and forth a lot. He said he was really enjoying it and he enjoyed my company and liked me and I really turned him on etc. Then when I wanted him to be my boyfriend he said no because we live too far apart and don't have enough in common. And he said there was another girl he was interested in. So I'm confused. Did he like me or not??? His actions tell me he really really liked me, yet he was interested in someone else??? Please help me understand this!!!!!
2007-03-12 14:45:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, 1st, ya shouldn't have sex till ur married, thats why this is happening. He is cheating, dump him and never have him back.
2007-03-12 14:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that you went through this, guys can be very self centred and inconsiderate, as long as they get what they want they really don't care about who they are effecting or hurting.. Don't question yourself, you know in yourself that YES he did like you, but for his selfish needs only, once you mentioned the word RELATIONSHIP, he ran with his tail between his legs and gave you every excuse under the sun..
You had all the right intentions and the true emotional connections, unfortunately it was all one way which is completely unfair to you. Being used is horrible and no-one should go through that, but in this day and age it seems like its an everyday thing.. Please don't question yourself because of him, he is not worth your energy, you have given him so much already.. Take this experience, and learn from it, as hard as it is for you right now, things will get better and you will find the ONE true person who is your everything...
Keep your chin up..:)
2007-03-12 22:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by Nishka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he got scared when you wanted him to be your boyfriend. Maybe that was too formal for him. What was he before you asked that while you were watching movies, sleeping over, cuddling all night and clinging to you if he wasnt your boyfriend then?
2007-03-12 21:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by kitttykitti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are confusing i went through that with a guy for 7 months and then i asked him if we were going to be together and he said no because he's leaving town he's a marine so i understand that when he has to leave ........he has to go but i also think that i was just a booty call.i'm glad i did'nt fall in love with him........be careful with your feelings dont get attached with him just yet see how he really feels about u. don't let him use u for sex if he really likes u he'll try to work it out.
2007-03-12 21:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to ya, but all he liked was the sex. In some ways it should make you feel kinda good. You can think of it as you are really good in bed otherwise he wouldn't drive all that way to be with you. It is really hard to be in long distance relationships though.
2007-03-12 21:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by amanda725_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he did like you ,but did not love you ,and as soon he
found someone new that he like.and live closer than you
he went for it.
Forget about him and move on
Next time hold on to your sexual drive and wait a while
2007-03-12 21:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Nelson L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just my thought. Having been exactly where you are, I do believe he played you. It was all about keeping him busy till something else came along. Something disposable, of course. No commitments.
2007-03-12 23:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by "Raine" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really liked to get laid but hated to make a commitment...next time get the commitment before you put out.
2007-03-12 21:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are like that they are interested on only one thing and no that guy didn't like you he was just using you just give up on him he will not be the only one you fall for
2007-03-12 21:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by kissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so a booty call.... He might like you but not like you enough for a relationship. Stop beign his door mat forget about him
2007-03-12 21:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by chalebori 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋