I made a bad choice and I did a stupid thing. A lot of people were upset with me for my choice; however, no one feels as bad as I do. I'm so embrassed, and I know what I did wrong. I made a fool of myself. I've apoligized to people that I hurt or upset from this choice, but I still feel horrible.
How can I clear my mind from this. I've lived and learned, but I can't move on. I always stress about things I can't control.
I'm embrassed by my choice and behavior. I know you can't change the past, but how can I get over this and move on.
2007-03-12 14:43:42 · 5 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Life is full of choices and some are good ones and some are bad ones. The point is that it's a life lesson that needed to be learned and now you know better and you won't make the mistake again. If people that you hurt don't forgive you well that's maybe a life lesson for them to learn, as we all have wort's and moles and nobody is perfect. Ask for forgiveness and know that your truly are sorry, make restitution there's nothing that can be done. Love yourself for who you are and people will love you for who you are.
2007-03-12 14:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by pizzaboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the key phrase is what you've already said. You stress about things you can't control. You can't change what you've done, you can only learn from your past behavior and not repeat your past mistakes. A little exploration as to your motivations for your choice will help you recognize situations where you're likely to make a similarly poor choice.
You'll get over this when you learn to forgive yourself. It's not easy, but it will come in time. Have faith in yourself, talk to a mental health professional or spiritual advisor if you need to. Be compassionate in your self-talk. You are not a bad person, you just made a bad choice. Good luck.
2007-03-12 21:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by melzoom615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're the only one who can make this go away by forgiving yourself and moving on..good luck
2007-03-12 21:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Queenie Peavey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just say your prayers, ask the Lord for forgiveness and dont do it again.
2007-03-12 21:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by LENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is your issue that everyone is mad at you about
2007-03-12 21:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋