If Ur Married a nice, charming man, who is just leaving in another world than U R,
a semi spiritual one, is happy w/ what he has & just love to play music, and read books : U R born to be manager, planer, active & very social, love to go dancing : he hates. love to wander in nature: he is usually lazy for that. U with big dreams: he thinks, U may grow up and forget them! U love him and he love U, but U R tired of this relationship, he can not understand. U try explain what U want, he think U R complaining about him, & U R Unfair, because U can not accept him in the way he is. U R missing being happy deeply.
Is the only way to forget about Ur dream and stay cause he is Ur husband?
Is it possible to live w/ these big different and be happy?
2007-03-12 14:35:33 · 3 answers · asked by Chico 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Assume, there is no judgment, and it is fair to stay or leave, what would u do? Would u stay just because U love him, or U would leave because out there some body might be waiting for just who U R and U R happy with just what he is? Who can make U happy. Is it true at all U can live w/ somebody who can make U Happy? or what I am experiencing is what U out there have? Loving but not being happy or satisfied? Of course I am sometimes good, but how often might U be happy to tell U have a happy life? If U have to change a lot to accept him, and he has to change a lot to be what U want, is that worth to do that?
2007-03-12 14:39:01 · update #1
I can say, all these differences was very attractive at first, but now dealing w/ them is not very easy.
2007-03-12 14:44:35 · update #2
stay and make each other happy,people just give up for the dumbest reasons
2007-03-12 14:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know he was like this when you married him?If not why did you marry him before you knew him?If you DID know these things why did you marry him anyway?Love is NOT enough it were, then YOU would not be unhappy and complaining.Try finding some things you BOTH like to do.Try doing some of the things HE likes, you might find yourself anjoying them also.
2007-03-12 21:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did two people so extremely different get married? If you can come to a comfortable medium I guess you could make it work.
2007-03-12 21:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋