Well, I am having problems with my ex bf, and my friends, and it hurts a lot. I got out a safety pin and started scratching myself with it, and now I have huge scratches on my arms! I dont want to tell my parents, or anyone else... I just want to stop because I know God doesn't want me to live this way. Please help me.
2007-03-12 14:27:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
btw, this has only been going on 4 a day so I know I can stop, but I dont want 2 continue.
2007-03-12 14:35:11 · update #1
I cut myslef to. Except deeper. I have 3 deep red marks on My arm. And Cut there On those 3 same sports over and over again.I want to stop to. I want to have a online appt. with some sort of physiologogist/thereapist. i need help to. But my reasons are different. Oh I know I know god doesn't want this, God help us both. Iam crying now, oh my god, Now I cut. Please I want to stop!!!!!!!fvsdkfj
2007-03-12 14:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a psychologist. Stop mutilating yourself. You don't have to be happy, their is no rule that says you do. Take your frustration out on your ex bf if you have to, get pissed with people, and even hey violent if you must. The main thing is cutting yourself is just wrong. You should do things that make you better then the people around you, not drag yourself beneath them. Buddy is right, see a doctor, see a therapist, stop worrying about mythical icons like god and how some giant in the sky (lol) wants you to live, forget about your ex and when you got to mutilate yourself, talk to someone, have a smoke, eat, whatever it takes to keep you from tearing your skin apart with a needle.
2007-03-12 14:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Love is an energy and it is always dynamic and flowers in insecurity.
2.You wanted love to fix with some one which is not possible that is why you are remebering your ex-bf and other friends.
3. Since love is dynamic so it may break with one person and happen with other person.
4.Considering above facts you should leave the past and live the life now and accept heartly what ever it gives you.
5.As far as scraches /wounds are concerned , go to doctor and have medicine , it will heal your wound in few days.
2007-03-13 00:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by binda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your parents wont be angry. They love you and will want to help.
Secondly, you are trying to escape the pain. sorta snap you back when you cut yourself. Really this doesn't work, it only hurts afterwards and then you have major cuts to explain.
Thirdly, God is testing you dear. It's hard but beak up, life will deal you bigger problems, trust me :)
Lastly if you are still in school trust me you will more than likely not even know where the bf or friends are due to you being out of state at college or they are away at college.
2007-03-12 14:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by JellyCat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a material disease that is an obsession and addiction. We are not our body, IE, race, color, religion, mind, intelletc, ego, job, ect. We are eternal spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul, also known as Krishna,Allah, Jehovah, Vishnu, etc. We have to reconnect with our maker to get out of this bodily conception of life (illusion) the best way to come to the spiritual platform is to chant the Maha Mantra (the great mantra for deliverance from all suffering and illusion) for details go to harekrishnatemple.c Read Bhagavad Gita As it is by Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada. _ tells how to overcome all suffering.
2007-03-12 14:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents, make a doctor's appointment to get the scratches taken care of, and while you are seeing the doctor, talk to him/her about why you did it. If s/he can't help you, s/he can make a recommendation about seeing someone who can help. Your pastor might be able to offer some help, too.
Ex's and friends can cause a lot of trouble ... usually without meaning to. Hang in there. Better days really are just ahead.
2007-03-12 14:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by istitch2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said "God doesn't want me to live this way.", maybe talking to your clergyperson would help. And realistically, you probably should get a tetanus shot which is paid for by your parents' insurance, so you need to tell them. Print out some articles on that type of behavior (is that considered cutting?) and show them to your parent when you ask for help.
2007-03-12 14:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in there things will get better in time. you know wat you need to change the next step is to change. inflicting pain or suicide thoughts is the easy way out of it all, but its not just the easy way its the coward way!!!!!!! just dont do any thing dumb. just always remember threre are people out there that have it worse than you. ive been there befor (but with a girlfriend) it aint worth it just thro away the pin and move on i hope this helps
hang in there kid
2007-03-12 14:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go see your medical doctor. People in Q&A cannot help you. Your MD will advise and refer you if necessary, also will ensure that you don't get lock jaw.
2007-03-12 14:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See my friend... u need a serious look for ur life's condition...
Also ur pseudo- name says LOVEME4EVA.... thats a very appealing name... but i dont know wat on earth have made u scratch ur arms..
This is a bad stuff mate. U should read bible, it has all the teachings of life...
God bless you!!!!
2007-03-12 14:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by dancingdoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋