My very attached relationship had it's share of problems. Eventually, she decided that rather than working things out that the best thing is for her to live life where she doesn't have to consider anyone as much as herself in her decision making. "I don't wanna even do anything with anyone else, I just need me time," to quote the text message. She says she doesn't like being without me but she insists that this is what's best. (she knows it's hurting me, but she feels better and it's what needs to happen she says.) Does this sound like a whole hearted desire to at some point be back together? What is it she would need time to figure out if we love each other? And how much time would that take? How do I deal with this?
2007-03-12 14:17:57 · 6 answers · asked by GStar4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know it sounds like something really unimportant at the moment, but she really just needs space. there's probably alot going on in her life right now, and she needs to figure out how to deal with it all and have some time for herself to remember who she is as a person, and not who others want her to be. it could take 2 days or it could take 2 months. if you really have feelings for her, let her know that you support her, and she has all the time she needs to figure things out. once she sees you're in it with her, she'll realize that it's ok to be a little overwhelmed with all the things happening in her life, and she'll know that she has you on her side, helping her through it all.
*hope this helps
-mazi
2007-03-12 14:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by kyliebear? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, hun, I'm sorry. But she does sound like she needs space. And if that's true, then you can't rush her. No, it doesn't sound like there's a desire to at some point be back together. But we don't know her. Honestly, she sounds like she's been smothered and needs to "break out" now. That doesn't mean YOU'VE been smothering her, I'm just saying..
2007-03-12 21:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by TopLessOne 1 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So she was faced with hurting your feelings and breaking up -or- doing her own thing. She chose doing her own thing. There's your answer dude. Simple as that.
2007-03-12 21:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giver her space. She probably has PMS problem. Smile.
She'll come around if she still loves you. Just don't push it. I cannot tell you how long because I don't know her.
Take care.
2007-03-12 21:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love herrrrrrrr
2007-03-12 21:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by kaci c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on dude, she already has.
2007-03-12 21:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Dusie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋