I know when we first got together he could never get enough of me..And I do realize that the newness will wear off.. We have been together 9 years and i find Him more sexy now than i ever have!! The problem is I dont think he feels the same.. He doesnt look at me like he used to. For example the other morning I was getting dressed and sat on his lap naked,Flirted with him and he payed no attention to me! I would love opinions on what the problem could be.. We have intercourse maybe 3-4 times a month.. I love him with all my heart and I want the closeness we once shared back....
2007-03-12 14:13:57 · 11 answers · asked by Family1st 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Share your thoughts and feelings with him! Don't hold back. Be honest. Ask him "what does it for him". I think that if you said to him what you have said here, he will be honest with you. Personally, I would kill to have a wife that was confident enough to sit in my lap naked!!
Bottom line, communicate!
2007-03-12 14:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by Gary M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could be tired of the same old routine. Try something new like a "peek-a-boo" baby doll lingerie which hides your body and not totally naked and maybe put candles or soften the atmosphere to make it enticing for him to get into the mood. You must also be sensitive to his mood where he can get tired (after a day's work) or he has some problems at work. So look out for these signs and talk to him when there is a need.
2007-03-12 21:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that men go through their sexual prime at 18 and women reach theirs in their 30s. Also remember that men are visual creatures! So whatever you do, make sure he SEES what you're doing! And next time try UNDRESSING and sitting on his lap instead of getting dressed! But to know for sure if you're hot or not, then sweetheart you're just going to have to email me a picture or two or three!! he he he!
2007-03-12 21:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should demand he service you (wink). Change up the routine. Or quit paying attention to him and act as if you're getting ready for someone else. If that doesn't get his attention, then you're not his cup-of-tea any longer.
2007-03-12 21:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must be a lot on his mind what you might wont to do is call is work tell his high up that your going to hubby nap him on a Friday and take he somewhere where it can just be you and him and re-find your lost closeness. i hope this helps
i had to do this with my wife every 2 -3 mounts. and it works great.
2007-03-12 21:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby n i have been together for 6 yrs and its te same the evryday stress and what gets in the way ask him thats the best way to find out
2007-03-12 21:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by Amber P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one who knows the answer to your question is your hubby. Ask him what is wrong and how can you both fix it. Good luck....
2007-03-12 21:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boredom?? If he had the time and wasn't tired or hungry and you are in good shape, and he didn't respond, you may have a problem. ask him
2007-03-12 21:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question: Is he screwing the hot young neighbor girl or is he just watching to much T.V.?
2007-03-12 21:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's having an affair. You should do the same.
2007-03-12 21:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Hugh Jardon 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋