Tips to stop masturbation.?

Question

I held it for 5 weeks then started again I wan kill myself its impossible.

dont say its good for you its not everywhere I read about it it says its bad for you health screws up your eyesight makes muscles weaker.

Answer 1

You better change to some honest reading material buddy. Masturbation is harmless, better than that it is good for you and your reproductive system. It relaxes you, relieves stress, and helps you control your sexual anxiety. It is the safest sex out there and it is not a sin since it is not mentioned in the old or new testament of the bible. So get over it and feel free to do it when you feel the need. As you get older you will not need to as much or at all.

Answer 2

Just because people say that the moon is made out of blue cheese and there are martians on it, doesn't mean the moon is really made from blue cheese and has martians on it...

Masturbations simply havig sex with yourself.... Does having sex with another person make your muscles weaker? No!! So why would having sex with yourself be any different than having sex with another person?

Get with the 21st century dude!!!

Masturbation IS good for you and it is a proven statistic that men who masturbate regularly decrease their chances for prostate cancer... Don't worry, you won't go blind or deaf or have hairy palms... All you'll have is a satisfied "friend" and a decreased chance of cancer

Don't worry and have fun with yourself!!

Answer 3

Why on earth do you want to stop?
Your reading material is out of the dark ages. Settle down take a breath and find some up to date material (start with my source below)
You are talking about a lifetime activity that you can experiment with and hone to a fine skill. There are probably guys who have quit but as you said its almost impossible to quit. Besides, it feels sooo goood.

Answer 4

hey..what...when...how...who??
Ahh bless ya! don't get in a tizwaz over it! Tho you say people say it is bad for your health I say personally it will do you more harm stressing over this, it is ONLY natural!..gawd I know a bloke that does it more then once aday I couldnt count! LOL and he is fine! No bad eyes e.t.c,
Im sorry When I read this I wasn't sure whether you were joking?
If this is a serious worry to you...PLEASE don't let it be, you will do yourself more damage holding it back then you will just to let go..so to speak.
IT'S A NATURAL thing to do, If you are young it is a great way to work out what you like and learn to become more at ease with your body! (and saves us partners having to work out what you want!)
so chill sweetie.
take care xxx

Answer 5

You are right it is impossible, or at least very hard not to. Don't worry about the sites or books that say it is bad for you are full of crap. Instead of reading stuff from some site that has an agenda read scientifically valid medical information.

Answer 6

Dude, just HOW much are you doing? Chill. You poor thing, you must be sore. Speak to you doctor. Spankin' the monkey 3x a week is statistically 'normal.' Actually, more than that is probably normal too, since most won't admit they're doing it! The best way to 'stop' is to engage in frequent & satisfying sexual intercourse WITH A PARTNER.

Answer 7

It will take some time to really stop. I know how it feels. I couldn't stop either. Try to do it less and less each week. And try not to think about sexual thoughts that will make you wanna release sexual pressure. Or just get a girl friend.

Answer 8

Umm I spanked my monkey for many years, no hairy palms or weakened muscles. My eyesight is bad, but it was going before I started playing with it. I didn't go blind though.

Answer 9

What in the world have you been reading? Masturbation does NOT weaken your muscles or eyes.

"It is held in many mental health circles that masturbation can relieve depression, stress and lead to a higher sense of self-worth (Hurlbert & Whittaker, 1991). "
"On July 16, 2003, an Australian research team led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council Australia published a medical study which concluded that frequent masturbation by males appears to help prevent the development of prostate cancer. "
"Masturbating frequently presents no physical, mental or emotional risk in itself, but it can be that masturbation is being used to relieve either boredom or stress. In either case, as with any "nervous habit", it is more helpful to consider the causes of the boredom or of the stress, rather than try to repress the masturbation itself."
"Medical attitudes toward masturbation began to change at the beginning of the 20th century when H. Havelock Ellis, in his seminal 1897 work Studies in the Psychology of Sex, questioned Tissot's premises, cheerfully named famous men of the era who masturbated and then set out to disprove (with the work of more recent physicians) each of the claimed diseases of which masturbation was purportedly the cause. "We reach the conclusion," he wrote, "that in the case of moderate masturbation in healthy, well-born individuals, no seriously pernicious results necessarily follow."" [1]

"Masturbation also can be used as a safe way of relieving sexual tension in adolescents who want to avoid pregnancy and the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases. Although there is nothing abnormal or unhealthy about masturbation from a medical point of view, some people have strong religious, cultural or moral objections to the practice. For those who hold these values, choosing not to masturbate is normal, too. There is nothing weird, odd, or unhealthy about this choice."
"In general, the medical community considers masturbation to be a normal part of human sexuality, as long as it is not practiced excessively or under inappropriate circumstances. If you are an adult, your doctor probably will not ask you about masturbation unless you bring up the subject. This is because masturbation is a form of normal sexual behavior, and it is not usually a symptom of illness. In adult patients, doctors usually see masturbation as a healthy, acceptable way to relieve sexual tension, especially when a patient's sexual partner is ill, absent, or otherwise uninterested in regular sexual contact. The National Institute on Aging emphasizes that masturbation actually "can help unmarried, widowed or divorced people and those whose partners are ill or away."" [2]

"So masturbation needs to be seen in this modern context, and viewed as an activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable, normal - and very safe. In fact, masturbation is the safest form of sex there is, and very much safer - and often more satisfying - than one-night stands."
"The only time masturbation is not safe is on those rare occasions when young men decide to experiment by masturbating with potentially harmful objects - such as a vacuum cleaner! This is extremely dangerous, and definitely not to be recommended."
"There are some men who don't masturbate, but these are mainly people who don't want to do it because of religious reasons, or because they're a bit uptight about sex. Also, some guys who have a fairly low sex drive don't masturbate. Some men - mostly from eastern cultures - try to avoid masturbating, as they believe it depletes their energy, and may shorten their lives. But there is no truth whatsoever in this belief." [3]

You may have religious issues with masturbation, and that's your business. But please do not continue spreading the falsehood that there is any medical reason not to masturbate. It's natural, it's healthy, it does not weaken your body. There is no medical reason not to masturbate. So relax a little and ask your god to forgive you.

Answer 10

Master bation isn't bad, it'll give you carpal tunnel syndrome in your wrist though!

Just do it, it's hormones. Or get a girlfriend (use condoms!).