i have a best friend that i have grown to love as a sista and i really do want her in my life but she wants her to be my only friend! i have many friends and she doesnt have very many so how do i tell her nicly without hurting her feelings that i need more time for my other friends and i little less time with her? we alwayz have fun together but i need to have other friends instead of just her! i need my space!
2007-03-12 13:58:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
in this situations the best language is the non spoken (course if u wanna loose 4ever) i mean try to avoid her & try to get more close 2 ur other friends, a) they will join her 2 the group b) she'll forget about u
2007-03-12 14:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it gets to the point in which you guys begin to spend less time together in a short period of time then it's meant for you to give up on that friend and accept the fact the friend you grow up with in elementary and middle even high school you end up lossing them as a friend
2007-03-12 21:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by MJ S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, it is best to say things as they are and stop trying to hurt the feelings of others when it is just not that.
If you keep acting like what she is doing is not hurting you then you are not being fair to her as friend. Tell her how you and feel and invite her to visit with your other friends. If she refuses then go ahead and have your fun and still be her friend.
Let her deal with the issue and mature in that area.
2007-03-12 21:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dazanix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to come along; she may like your other friends too. If this is not an option, just tell her that your friends need you - just like she needs you. Tell her that you don't want to upset neither of them and try to divide up your time for all.
2007-03-12 21:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is the direct way. Just calmly sit her down and tell her how you feel.
2007-03-12 21:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first, tell herr that u promised someone you would hang out with them. tell her she is welcomed to join in. OR you could get her some more freinds?
2007-03-12 21:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by Music ChickidEE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that biatch to F-word off
2007-03-12 21:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋