My wife wants to sleep with another woman?

Question

My wife and I have been married 9 years and to this day have great sex and better every time. However, my wife would like to sleep with a good female friend of hers and I am willing to let her do but get afraid about her leaving me or just not loving sex with me anymore. What should I do? Should I give in to her wants and needs to fulfill this? I too like the idea of her being satisfied by a woman

Answer 1

Rarely does that situation work out. It usually means the begining of the end. If you say no, she most likely will do
it behind your back. If you agree, things may never be the same.

Answer 2

Now this is not an easy question to answer. Every couple handles this kind of thing differently. As far as her leaving you, how is your marriage other than the sex? That is one thing to think about. Another is this other woman being a good friend. That itself could cause problems. But then again, I understand the comfort in it being someone who she can trust. Is this something that you both talked about before? if this is something you want too, then you really need to sit down with her and have a deep conversation about this. About where this could go and where it could lead. Doing something like this does not always mean it could turn out bad, as long as it is just a curious wonder. You really need to speak with your wife and finds out how she truly feels about this friend and what peaked he interest and go from there. Good luck to you both!

Answer 3

I doubt your interested in having sex with another man, so ask your wife what she would think about you having sex with another woman, bet she wouldn't like that, and there's no difference between what she wants and you having sex with another woman just because it's a woman she wants. When your married your only supposed to have sex with your spouse, not with anyone else no matter what their sex is. I'd be willing to bet this will cause problems down the road. One of you will end up throwing it up in the others face when you have an argument, she'll say you don't care because you didn't stop her or you'll say she doesn't care because she did it.

Answer 4

Do you WANT to let her do this? In my opinion, it's still okay for some things to just NOT be okay. You've been married for nine years and that in itself is wonderful. But you know, marriage truly is designed for TWO people. You know, most everyone has sexual fantasies about others, male or female, but one also has to recognize that acting on them isn't always wise. Maybe she needs to take a look at her marriage and realize that it is important and should be her first priority. I'd say, tell her it's not acceptable. Failing that, ask if she'd mind if YOU sleep with a good female friend of hers! Good luck.

Answer 5

Well I guess you will have to ask your wife how she really feels about you. Tell her you are willing to let her do this as long as you can be a part of it. Know this she can always slip around the corner when you are not watching and how could you tell? If she is willing to let you take part then it is up to you my friend. And tell her you do not intend to only watch! If this does not back her off then you are in for one wild time ! Don't know what lies ahead in the future from this so good luck!

Answer 6

I have news for you she has been doing it for a long time if you say no she will do it anyway . She would feel better about her self if you said ok . If she is going to leave you she will no matter what you say, you should go along with it and see how it pans out, be nice about it and tell her you love her very much make her think about it. Your not going to change it anyway she is what she is do not be to negative or you may push her away . Be careful what you ask for advice here you know your situation more than anybody else and you know her better than anybody else, Nothing is black or white . Good luck to you and take slow ( be nice and loving to her ) .

Answer 7

Do you like the idea of her being with another woman for real? Are you really ready to face the fact that another may come into your sex life and destroy what you have? It's not not worth it. Don't mess up what you have going so good for temptation. If she wants to be with another woman, don't you get the idea that she may want more than what you give her?

Answer 8

I wouldn't because fantasy are what they should be and that's just fantasies and leave it at that. Some people go into situations thinking they can handle it only to find out reality is not what they expected. Just tell your wife you don't want it to happen and if she says ok and leaves it alone it should be fine but if she persists then she really doesn't care about your relationship or you and it will begin the down hill slide.

Answer 9

I hope you are right about the sex you have being great all the time. She might like it with her better. Why risk it? Besides it is never as good as the fantasy cause people get in the way.

Answer 10

would she allow you to have sex with another woman? if not than it is kind of a double standard. if she tries to say that you could have sex with a man and that would be the same flat out no its not. not unless you are attracted to men. if she will let you be there and be a part of the whole thing then yes go for it hell its every mans dream. but if not then she is not being fair about the whole thing. again double standard.