He is always leaving me and his 1 month old baby at home. He saids he has to stay at his mom's house because he has no other way of getting around. Today , he had a girl I went to school with bring him to the house to get his Picture Id so he could cash his paycheck. I was wondering why was she driving his neice car and not his niece;plus what was she doing taking my husband anywhere? Something is wrong with this picture. When I asked could I go to his mom's house with him he said no because he didn't want to be stuck. What's this supposed to mean? I am supposed to be your wife not a friend. Then when I called his mom's house 30 minutes later he wasn't there. It only takes 15 minutes to get to his mom's house. Everytime I say I am gonna leave him he begs me to stay and I change my mind like a dummy. What do I do? I want out of this mess because I'm tired of hurting.
2007-03-12 13:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by sweetlove30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is seeing this girl, trying to shirk his responsibilities of being a dad and a husband, would rather act like a teenager without responsibility. he can give u all kinds of reasons why he wants to be at his mom's house, but the chances are that he has a girlfriend, and everyone knows it but u. u asked to go with him, he didn't want to be stuck with u i guess. i would get out of this marriage because this guy is way to immature to be married.
2007-03-12 14:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like he is going out on you. Sounds like he wants to eat the apples that are far from the tree. He doesn't deserve to have a descent woman if that is the way he is. You sound a little insecure. Don't get me wrong, I am not bagging on you, just stating what I think. Something fishy is going on that is for sure. Tell him to get lost, divorce him and make him pay alimony, and child support, see how he likes them apples. I am available if you would like to see how a man treats his woman, and not how a boy treats his girl.
2007-03-12 14:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by mykd4sound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sent you an E-mail....... Do you think he is cheating? Does his mom like you? Maybe you two need time away from the baby so that you can some time alone together. Try to fix the problem not run.
2007-03-13 08:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Rose K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read your question again and you will see your answer in there. He's playing you. It's time to sit him down and explain things to him.Either he cleans his act up and does the right thing or get out.
2007-03-12 14:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is having an affair and he is using your mom's place as an excuse/alibi. Yes, leave him.
2007-03-12 16:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hubby has a girlfriend and you need a lawyer.
2007-03-12 14:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
his mom gives him what he wants; hes a momma's boy. get out of that mess and find yourself a real man.
2007-03-12 14:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the lying a**hole b4 you get hurt any more..and dont listen to his feeble begs....what a jerk!!!
2007-03-12 17:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by free-spirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave and file for divorce
2007-03-12 14:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋