What if it was your best friends boyfriend with whom you had the affair with?
2007-03-12 13:44:57 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well if this is you, dont get an abortion,if you dont want he kid...adoption, at least you can live with the fact you didnt kill a baby and made a couple who cant have kids very happy.
BTW..i would just call em up and say "im pregnant" it happened to me, and life is still going, it didn't end.
Also if your scared your body is going to get ruined, it wont...just eat for one, NOT TWO...I look better and thinner now than before I was pregnant cause I took care of myself!
2007-03-13 05:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooops !!! Yikes, that's a bit messy ................ is it be a good thing or not that you are pregnant, do you want to have the baby??
Assuming that you do, I wouldn't be expecting too much from the guy concerned !! Of course, you should let him know. There's really no easy way to tell somebody such life altering news now is there. Ask him to meet you for coffee out somewhere, so that you're on neutral ground. You never know, he may just surprise you. He might be rapturously happy !! Stranger things have happened girl. You don't say how you or for that matter even he feels about each other. I have a sneaky little feeling he is definitely going to surprise you !! GOOD LUCK
Oh, I think that's gonna have to be your call as far as telling your best friend or not. Depends on whether you want to be buds with her or not anymore...............
PEACE
.................. :0)
2007-03-12 20:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Minx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the person above (well a couple people above) go on the Jerry Springer show.
Or jsut tell him cause if u had an affair with him then u obviously dont care about your friends feeling so it shouldnt matter if u will hurt her feelings anymore. Just to let u know u should never do that to a "best friend"
2007-03-12 20:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by it's me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I think that person needs therapy and should consult with a doctor to make 100% sure she is pregnant before ruining more lives.
2007-03-12 20:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say they really got themselves in a mess and cats gotta come out of the bag sometime. I'd also say you just lost yourself a best friend but the father of the baby has a right to know
2007-03-12 20:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by ♥fungirl♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Big Trouble but the best friend cant beat your *** while youre pregnant so at least youre safe for a while
2007-03-12 21:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by lucky b 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Approach them in 7 months time.
2007-03-12 20:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would of make sure that am Pregnant first.Then let your mom know.Make sure to be prepared to lose some friends.Then tell him that you are pregnant.Good luck and I hope everything turns out gust fine.
2007-03-12 20:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would go something like this..."Hey, I'm pregnant." It takes two, obviously NOT best friends!
2007-03-12 20:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by Luvatlanta 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way ...just be honest & be prepared to lose a friend..& never expect a reaction at first ..the shock has to wear off...& he may not be there for the reasons you want ...
2007-03-12 20:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Derby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋