i caught my boyfriend looking at dirty things on the internet. should i care? or let it pass? i think he shouldnt want to look at anybody else, exp for me. it really upsets me. i asked him about it and he says, " ohh i was just looking it up to prove to you that your boobs arent small, bc those girls have small boobs too." but, they were pictures of under girls skirts. im every insulted by this. i thought i was enough for him. guess not. what should i do?
2007-03-12 13:04:28 · 14 answers · asked by yo 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
It is bad only if you're offended by it. I wouldn't say drop him and I hate how everybody says that. His excuse sounds just like an excuse so you can go ahead and let him know that you know his excuse is bologna. Just because he likes to look at other girls, as all males do whether or not they will admit it, doesn't mean you aren't enough. You should have a talk with him, tell him how you feel, and ask him not to do it again. If he continues, then he really doesn't care about how you feel or what you think and he should swiftly be punched in the face. Honestly, you're probably more than enough for him. He just might be an idiot, again possibly in need for a punch to the face.
2007-03-12 13:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters unless he was looking at them for hours a day. Actually....thongs??? I don't think it's a big deal. If he was constatly watching porn, then he might be lacking something from the relationship or have a porn addiction. However, I think it's funny that he had to make up an excuse. A real man would just admit it. "Yeah, I like looking at thongs!" Maybe even suggest buying some for you to try :-D.
2007-03-12 20:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Skytide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what your comfortable with. It's no different than magazines that guys look at. And you know all of them do look at them. Just because they are looking at these girls does not mean that you're not enough for them, it's simply "looking". But there are people that can't handle their boyfriends doing that, so talk to him about it, and if he still doesn't listen to you, I'd say you need to find someone who will.
2007-03-12 20:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he needs to look at that he is not much of a man.(Right?).
talk to him,and if he does not change then you need a real man!!.Thats so silly that SOME guys get off by a stupid moniter.Y?.when they have the real thing.TAlk to him and let him know how you feel.
2007-03-12 20:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boy will be a boy! I personally don't think that he should be looking at those things at all but that's his decision. And unless you guys are like engaged you can't really get to upset with him. Unless he made a commitment with you.
2007-03-12 20:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by sanieb. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another boyfriend who does not feel the need to look at porn on the internet. It may take you awhile, but they are out there.
Some will probably tell you that it's normal for guys to look at porn, but if it bothers you then find someone else who is not into porn.
In other words, find someone you are compatible with.
2007-03-12 20:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is obsessed with it then its a problem.
and if your uncomfortable with him, tell him and if he really cares about you then he will stop.
just know that ALL men need that stuff (even though its so gross!)...even the men that are faithful. my guess is that if hes looking at that stuff, hes not cheating on you with some girl like that. he wouldnt be looking at that stuff if he could do girls like that...
2007-03-12 20:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by Meow771 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you then yes, it is wrong for him to do that. My boyfriend knows that things like that hurt me so he does not do them. Talk to him and let him know how much it bothers you and if he is not willing to stop he is not worth being with.
2007-03-12 20:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by Maid of Constant Sorrow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, it wouldnt be normal if guys didnt look, theyre gonna look, dont let it bother you. its not like he knows them, its something all guys do, most just wont admit it...
dont worry, let it pass, just tell him to do it on his own time!
2007-03-12 20:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by baba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. if that does not work try to block that website, or that link. if he asks why, say that it offended you and you were hurt.
2007-03-12 20:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by artgurl123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋