Any councellor out there to help a teen?

Question

i am a teen and my family is sort of against having a boyfriend before college. also, i hav this wierd problem that i get attracted to guys in school who are atleast 4 yrs older than me. most people ask me if i have a crush on a guy in my grade or 1 year older. they don't expect me 2 go beyond that. if i want, i can easily get a boyfrnd who is 1 year older than me becoz several are after me. but, its no point as i don't get attracted to them. my crush just passed out of school. the older guys get attracted to older girls and i dont get attracted to guys who r fit 4 my age. one more thing, i have this strange desire to hav a relationship with someome that goes beyond friendship. i feel the need to have a romantic relationship. i keep imaginin how it wud be with somebody like that around. but, i dont persuade the feeling. wats wrong with me? is this natural? i keep tellin myself that i shud wait to grow older and becu more mature but its not workin Also, i luk 2-3 yrs older than my age

Answer 1

Listen to your family. And even when you do get to college, you need to be careful of guys who just want to "shack up" with you. If a guy really does respect you, he won't try to treat you like an "unpaid whore."

I think being attracted to older guys is common to an extent. However I've also heard of grown women who treat their husbands like their fathers because they never had a father when they were kids (like not wanting to have sex with them and when things go wrong they want their husbands to take care of things and not help).

So I don't know, you should try to think about what has happened in your life that might cause you to find this sort of love somewhere else if you didn't get it as a kid.

And I should tell you thanks for giving me the best answer about your C++ code, but I made a typo:

if(x< num[i]) should be if(x > num[i])

sorry about that! I'm sure you already noticed though.

Answer 2

The teenage years can be an emotional assault course for all concerned. Parents and their teenage offspring may seem to be at each other's throats. The special name for this stormy time is adolescence.

http://www.psychology.org/cgi-bin/links2/search.cgi?query=adolescence

Answer 3

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