2007-03-12 12:46:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Give the baby up for adoption for someone who has been waiting their whole lives for a baby. I know how this is. You have to make your own decision but I think you'd be a lot happier living with that one than abortion. I will forever be grateful to the lady that lets me adopt her baby. You would really be doing a good thing. Especially for your baby.
2007-03-12 14:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whatever you do DO NOT try this yourself. Any of the old wives takes are wrong and dangerous. If you don't get this done properly (either medically or making the correct decision) you will end up with permanent problems. Imagine if you were never able to have children as the result of you "trying the old coat hanger trick...(some people don't think on here some times)...or if after a few months/years you really have a problem with aborting this child. I think you really need to go to a family planning agency so you can talk to a counsellor so you can make a secure informed decision. This is very important and you really need to approach it seriously and not in a panic-stricken way. Good Luck :)
2007-03-12 13:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, abortion is not the answer. Right now you're scared. You're not ready for this and it took you by suprise, I know. I can totally relate to how you're feeling.
But you need to think long term here:
Yes, you're probably at a point in your life where a baby would ruin the plans you have. However, from the second that that sweet little child was concieved, he or she was already perfectly designed. It was already decided if the baby was a boy or girl, or if he had your nose or she had her father's eyes.
This beautiful little person that is half you, deserves a chance at life. I know you're scared, and that you don't see any better answer than to just erase the problem and forget about it ever happening ---
But it won't go away.
No abortion can take away your memories. They don't mention that years from now, you'll look at other babies you see and know that you had one of your own that you chose to end his or her life. It isn't worth the emotional pain and sorrow.
It may seem like a really difficult road, that has a lot more hurdles for you to jump than just to abort the baby, but adoption is an answer that is a choice made out of love. If you choose to seek an adoption family for your precious baby, you will have given him or her the most precious gift they will ever receive, and all of their lives, they will thank you for it.
Adoptive families can provide housing for you while you carry the baby, as well as medical care and other neccesities. Some even let you have contact with the baby after the adoption.
Please choose to keep that beautiful little child.
My Prayers are with you
-Sarah
(Feel free to contact me, if you want anyone to talk to or need any support!)
2007-03-12 13:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by RaginCajun 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First off, think very hard about the reasons you feel you need to have an abortion. Second, talk to some adult you trust who is open and willing to be supportive of your decision. Third, if the father is any where around, speak to him. If you still choose abortion, try planned parenthood or go into your local hospital. In the U.S. money is not always an issue because we do have Medicaid. Please, think about it before choosing it. You have until you are 12 weeks along in most cases. Take three days to decide. I chose an abortion when I was seventeen because I had my father telling me that was what I needed, my boyfriend telling me that was what I needed, my mother in a mental institute, no job, no money, no home. I still wish to this day that I would have thought about it more. It will affect you for the rest of your life. Good luck.
2007-03-12 13:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by Strange Iq's 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God is really telling you to keep the baby.
Give the baby up for adoption, if u cant handle being a mommy.. Abortion stops a beating heart
at your age, can cause mass internal bleeding
can cause breast cancer. (doubles your risk)
ups your suicide risk by 20%.
1st day 46 chromosomes and own dna (making it a human) as well as unique soul. No other baby will ever be like it.
4 weeks (1 month) babys heart makes first beats, heart developed and spine developed.
8 weeks (2 months) baby has a sense of touch (that means it can feel) major organs develop and bones are developed.
13 weeks Baby has finger prints, toes and hands.
GET THE FACTS www.deathroe.com
Please reconsider. Adoption is an option.
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If you are pregnant, please do the right thing and keep yourself and your baby safe. Your child's heart begins beating just 18-21 days after conception. Regardless of your situation, your baby is completely innocent and does not deserve to die. She is depending on you for protection.
2007-03-12 13:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by metalstefl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Carry to term. If you manage to get an abortion, you'll pay a higher price later on emotionally.
Go to a crisis pregnancy center if you need to!
No one *needs* an abortion.
2007-03-12 12:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Give that poor Innocent baby up for adoption. It didn't ask to get a body and to be murdered. Give that baby a chance at life. There are so many people out in the world that would love to have your baby if you just give them the chance.
Good Luck and PLEASE reconsider getting an abortion. You'll be really glad that you did.
2007-03-12 12:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by I love my kids! 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry that you find yourself in this postition. I hope that you have a strong support network that will support you and your decision. We have to do what is best for us in life. I would check with your local Planned Parenthood office. These people are very nice and supportive, they will not pass judgement on you. They should be albe to help you if not they will be able to guide you to a place that can help you.
www.plannedparenthood.org
You can also check with the National Abortion Federation. They have a list of providers and might be alble to give you some direction or help. Again these are people who will not judge you and just assist you in getting the help you need.
http://www.prochoice.org
Here is also another website that has a list of abortion providers, they might be able to give you guidence, also you might want to contact some of the providers in your area they may be able to help you.
http://www.gynpages.com
NARAL is also a non-profit group that has information on abortions and providers. They are a great organization and have info on before and after care they shoudl also be able to help you.
www.prochoiceamerica.org
I hope you find what you are looking for.
2007-03-12 13:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by surfjax32 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
honey its your business if thats what you want to do. none of these people know your struggle or is going to help out when you need help taking care of your child. call a planned parenthood center, they will counsel you before and after. dont let anyone push you to do something that you arent comfortable with.
2007-03-12 13:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some clinics help in paying for an abortion. You just need to read the info on their websites.
Go to http://www.abortion.com and click on your state then to a clinic
2007-03-12 15:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋