So I really like this guy. And he likes me too. But he has "best friend" who is a girl. And they always hangout. She has a boyfriend but they never hangout. And yeah I mean it's cool that he has a best friend. But are they more then friends and hiding it? I don't know what to do. He keeps telling me that they are just friends but....I don't know. I just don't want to go out with him and then find out that he's cheating on me. Is he cheating? Or are they just friends?
2007-03-12 12:45:56 · 9 answers · asked by Cybill 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WELL BELIEVE ME IF they are just friends then mostly they are just good friends
2007-03-12 12:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Killercobra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to suggest the three of you do something together.(movies, mall, snowboarding, hanging out etc.)remember to just keep it you three. Tell the girl you heard she was really nice and is a great best friend for your boyfriend and that you would also like to be her friend. Start to get to know her. If shes nice and not out to get your boyfriend for friends with benifit then shes a good person.
possible situations
1. they could be childhood friends almost like siblings
2.the girl could secretly like the boy.vice versa. inner feelings.(hidden)
3. if they are too involved in each other with you around then there is a problem.
4. what if they have quite a bit in common and could make a couple?
5. confront the boy and tell him what you think is in his best interest. if he really likes the girl you should break up with him.
6. if he says he doesnt, say its best if you split up and saw how much you truly missed each other.
7. finallly, if you have the slightest doubt he is cheating on you, dont do something crazy. use reverse phycology on him or her. ( say it was all your fault for being so naive and friendly)
8. but if nothing is really going on between them your fine
9. if him and the guy are meant then.
10.anyways perform a secret investigation
11. In the end may you find the person who likes you alot to go out with, and may you always have a friend to hold your back,
12. dont listen to the gossip!
sometimes people suggest the crziest things.!
relationships may come and go. but good friendship last forever
5.
2007-03-12 20:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're probably nothing more than friends. I had a guy and a girl friend who were like BEST FRIENDS, ALWAYS together, EVERYONE thought they were going out and it made them mad. Your best friend can be a guy. Talk to him about it and see if the relationship works out, that girl is the last thing you should worry about right now.
2007-03-12 20:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that dont mean hes cheating hun just means she happens to be his bestf friend at this moment and , if you really like him and you think he's into you go for it! i bet he will start spending more time with you then her! a key to a good relationship is talking i know im married now but i been with him since i was 12 good luck girl follow your heart!!!
2007-03-12 19:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by lilangelbud2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is something. Ask him about his best friend because that seems to be the problem. If he likes you honestly, he will tell you the truth.
2007-03-12 20:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by loveangel641 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says they are just friends ask her or believe him
2007-03-12 19:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he will cheat you. coz you yourself know that his bestfriend has a boyfriend so dont worry. if you want to go out together just go.
2007-03-16 04:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he liked you then why would he lie to you if you're not even going out..? Believe him.
2007-03-12 20:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by dumdididum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk
2007-03-12 19:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by Onedrop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋