my brother is my best friend and usually we talk about almost everything. he's got a high stress job, difficult ex-wife, and custody issues with the kids... he is an excellent father and brother, but the stress is too much for anyone, how do i tell him i want him to go to therapy? he needs a break as he is always the "go to guy", i'm afraid for what could happen if he doesnt find a better way to handle his stressors...
2007-03-12 12:43:00 · 5 answers · asked by tata 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just talk to him honestly and openly. Let him know that you see how much stress he is under and that it is taking a toll on him. Encourage him to see a therapist and/or take some time off so he can rejuvenate.
2007-03-12 12:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, men are supposed to be strong and not have feelings. If they do feel something, then they shouldn't show it. That's the way society has made them feel anyways. Just tell him straight out...take a break and maybe talk to someone objective about the situation. Tell him you love to listen but someone who doesn't know you might be able to shed a different light on the subject that you can't. Be honest in your concern for his well being and let him know it's okay to take a breather...
2007-03-12 19:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Tina D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the same things you just wrote about. All of his wonderful qualities, then state your concerns you love him he will hear you. Talking to him is all you can do.
2007-03-12 19:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by TATSEL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. tell him you're concerned about him. ask if he thinks counseling will help. ask him what you can do to help. let him know that you'll be there for him, no matter what.
2007-03-12 20:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by mizz_kitty_79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make him get help. just be there to listen to him.sometimes talking really helps.
2007-03-12 19:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by marylou f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋