I'm a girl and almost 19 . I want to be bisexual,its means alot to me if i could just be that way but I'm straight so why is it so darn inportant to me to be bi ? No other straight person wants to be bisexual but yet i do.
2007-03-12 12:11:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sounds like you need some therapy. maybe you can figure out why it is so important to be something you are not by talking it out with a professional. and don't make the mistake of thinking you are the only person in the world that feels the way you do.
2007-03-20 00:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I am jealous of people who are not straight just because their community allows them to live outside the gender norms that our society has decided is normal. Being straight, I often feel like society is trying to push me into a role, and I always have to push back and insist on me being me. If I were not straight, I would already be labeled as deviant and society would not care so much how I acted.
Maybe you need to hang out with the right people. I am a member of a gay and straight alliance at my school, and even though I am straight, it is such an awesome, comfortable place where I can be just exactly who I am.
Good luck to you.
2007-03-12 19:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by the guru 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You're 19, you're figuring out who you are and what you really believe. That's identity-formation and it's completely normal. And sexual fantasy is a big part of it.
So you want to be bi. Of course you do, we get to appreciate the beauty and magnificence of both genders. It's fantastic.
You understand that, even if your hard-wiring is het. So be a friend and ally to us, a sort of honorary bi, if you will. Over time, you'll come to understand why this matters so much to you and you'll find your own place.
2007-03-12 19:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by The angels have the phone box. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, Why would you want to be bisexual? If you are even thinking about it then maybe you arn't straight...possibly your subconsciously gay and want to be bi? I don't know. If your bi then you know it. If your gay you know it. Its how you feel. I am bisexual and believe me it really is no walk in the park.
2007-03-19 00:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by princesstracybrat1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a number of reasons that you want t be bi. It's normal to want to be something you're not. What you need to do now is learn to accept your sexuality and move on with your life.
2007-03-13 03:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are as you are - whether you were created to be LGBT or straight. Neither preference is more "right" or "wrong" or the other. It's just the way you are.
Don't fight your natural orientation. Learn to accept it. Of course, you still might be doing some experimenting to understand exactly what that is.
There is no choice about sexual orientation. Don't confuse this with sexual behavior, which is completely a choice. No one "wants" you to be anything but who you are.
Good luck!
2007-03-12 19:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Now you're confusing me. If you're straight don't force yourself to be bi. But if being bi is what you want just go ahead and do it!
2007-03-12 20:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Grrr! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm could be that you are actually bisexual...
Are you attracted to women? Or only attracted to men? If you are attracted to women then that could mean you might actually be bisexual...
But if you are only attracted to men, then I do not know why you would be worried about wanting to be bi...
2007-03-12 19:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a question for you: do you wanna be bi or you feel the need to be bi??
i dont think i made myself clear!!!
but is there something specific that's making you feel like this!!!
2007-03-18 04:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you "want" to be bisexual? I find that confusing. I mean, you cannot change who you innately are. you are straight, gay or bi. period. no one can "choose" their sexual orientation.
2007-03-12 21:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋