To tell your boyfriend your pregnant??? I am really worried about telling him and that he will get mad I am only 15 and I don't know how to tell him without him getting mad.
2007-03-12 12:04:08 · 12 answers · asked by Kally 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am really hoping to tell him soon or would it be better not to tell him???
2007-03-12 12:31:55 · update #1
I have already told my parents and they want me to have the baby his parents won't kill him or anything but I just don't know how HE will take it.
2007-03-12 12:34:28 · update #2
Just tell him. I was 15 when I got pregnant and I just sat him down and told him. My boyfriend on the other hand broke up with me, but hopefully your boyfriend will be a better man. If you need anyone to talk to you can email me or IM me, I am usually around.
2007-03-12 12:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you positive you are pregnant? Get him alone, not in the hallway of school, either, and just tell him: WE are pregnant. If he gets mad just remind him it was his sperm that he put in you and he should have had a condom on! Once that is over you two can decide what to do. If he is 1/2 a man he will go with you to tell your parents! Hurry up before they find out from someone else. News travels very fast!
2007-03-12 12:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all, if your scared of, him you probably shouldn't have been with him in the first place. obviously to late to worry about that though.
how old is he?
if he's older and has a job he may take it lighter than with out one, or if he has cool parents, who wouldnt kill him.
second, u need to tell ur parents if u havent already, thats a very important thing, you need to go to the doctor, therefore, your parents must know.
ive been in your shoes, not to long ago, when i was 15. i understand that its scary, and there really is no ''easy'' way to tell him. but just be calm when you tell him, tell him what your heart is telling you to say at the moment, dont be afraid of a guy, that just gives them more reasons to feel superior to u, and is not good! tell him how you feel about it, ask how he feels, be open with your emotions so he can be open with you, and will most likely be calm himself...., and try not to get upset with him, if he gets upset, hes a male, and by telling them that they're fun is over, isnt gonna go over well with him, no matter what they say to you at the time. im praying for you, that he will be good to you about it, unlike my boyfriend was.
Good Luck
2007-03-12 12:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't imagine anybody would want to be in your shoes right now. You will have many tough decisions to make. Pray to God to help you through this, ask for his direction and wisdom, and give you the words to say to your bf and help you to make the right decisions regarding this little child. This child isn't a mistake, but things happen for a reason. I would not suggest getting an abortion, as studies show this can lead to inner turmoil and depression later in life. Reach out to those that you know will be supportive, and keep your chin up as this is only for a season, and you will make it through. You may want to talk to a pastor/counsellor to find out what community supports are available to you, and have them praying for you. There is immense power in prayer.
Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
and lean not on your own understanding,
but acknowledge him in all ways, and he will
make your paths straight.
I will be praying for you,
God Bless You,
Daniel
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2007-03-12 13:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Third Day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you want to tell first, him or your parents?
Which one is actually gonna be there for you, him or your parents?
I'd go for telling your parents first, but since I'm not you and you're not me, just tell him. You have to tell him whether it be over the phone or someplace private at school.....unless you get an abortion (which I highly vote against) he's gonna find out sooner or later. Especially if you've told your friends.
2007-03-12 12:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of the worse case scenario. There is no easy way except for sitting him down and telling him and face the music afterwards... Good luck.
2007-03-12 12:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your afraid he is mad. You are the one who should be mad because he got you pregnant as well and it takes 2 to tango. You should bring the hammer down on him and if he is dangerous bring your dad in because your dad will freaking kill him if he doesn't take responsibility.
2007-03-12 12:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by teenzyla92 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you do not know how to keep your legs closed, and that you will soon see a product.
2007-03-12 13:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried? You don't have to be scared, unless this baby is from someone else.
2007-03-13 21:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by Bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he get mad, it's half his fault
2007-03-12 21:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋