To tell your boyfriend your pregnant??? I am really worried about telling him and that he will get mad I am only 15 and I don't know how to tell him without him getting mad.
2007-03-12 12:03:25 · 6 answers · asked by Kally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am really hoping to tell him soon or would it be better not to tell him???
2007-03-12 12:11:05 · update #1
IF YOU CAN'T TELL HIM FACT TO FACE THEN GIVE HIM A NOTE ..I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU CAUSE ..HE SHOULD HAVE PROTECTED YOU
ALSO REMEMBER , HE PROBABLY WONT STICK AROUND AND HELP WITH RAISING A BABY ..YOU ARE YOUNG ..AND EXPERIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER ..WHY , HASN'T YOUR MOM TAKEN YOU AND GET YOU ON BIRTH CONTROL SHOT ..I MEAN THESE PEOPLE WHO HAVE KIDS AND DON'T GIVE A CARE ..YOU WERE MY DAUGHTER , YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN ON BIRTH CONTROL WHEN YOU GOT YOUR FIRST PERIOD ..I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR YOU...GOD BLESS YOU!
P.S. IF I HAD A GIRLFRIEND AND HER MOM DID NOT HAVE HER ON BIRTH CONTROL ..I WOULD GET HER ON BIRTH CONTROL OR USE PROTECTION MYSELF ..THAT IS WHAT GREAT GUYS ARE SUPPOSED TO DO
2007-03-12 12:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Swm 39 4 Younger Swf Forever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. The best way to do it is to just get it over with. But if you are worried that he is going to be mad and not be there for you, make sure you have a good support team of friends and family. You have a long road ahead of you and you can't do it alone at 15 years old.
And if he does get mad, please try not to let it effect you. For one, it took two to make the baby. For two, you don't deserve the stress throughout your pregnancy. For three, as you are now bringing another life into the world, it is time to learn to take the high road and not let that highschool stuff get to you. You will have to do a lot of growing up now, a lot sooner than you had planned, I'm sure. But now it is up to you to make the best of it and offer your new baby a good stable home to come into.
I'm sure this is going to be really hard for you. In an ideal world, everyone's baby's daddy would be there for them, but it just doesn't always work out that way. Don't let this moment be a dark spot in your life. You have an amazing opportunity to grow into a spectacular woman now. This can be an incredible learning experience for you. Despite his reaction, hold your head up high and you can get through this to see a really happy ending.
P.S. I could be like some people and scold you, but the baby is already on the way, so I won't do that. I think you understand that you didn't make the wisest choices. But you know what? It's what you do with those choices that makes the difference. So congratulations and good luck. Having a baby will change your life for the better.
2007-03-12 19:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by starlight_940 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better tell him it really doesn't matter if gets mad...it's not about him it's about an unborn child who has no say in this matter. He will have to get over it and step up and be a man, after all he thought he was when you both doing the deed...good luck
2007-03-12 19:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to talk to your parents about this since you are so young. Yes, you should tell him - he is the father and has the right to know. But if you feel he may get angry/violent don't tell him alone - do it with your parents or someone else there. Good luck.
2007-03-12 19:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have your boyfriend and his parents come over to the house and sit down with your parents so you can tell all of them that you are pregnant. Maybe his parents and your parents have some ideas to help the situation.
2007-03-12 19:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOUR 15...... oh crap.... go on maury.... YOU ARE THE FATHER!!!! Or Jerry Springer
2007-03-12 19:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by Marciano 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋