There is this girl in school that has a big problem with me and i dont even talk to her she makes me so mad that i want ot deck her in the face i told her to leave me alone but she continusly calls me names one day my anger and bipolar will get to me and i will blow and freak on her the last time i freaked on somone out side of shool my parents put me in a mental hospital and i dont want to go back b/c if it happens again i am going to juvie and i dont want that either so can any one help me
2007-03-12 12:01:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try this every time someone makes you angry, (you need to wear a rubber band on your wrist make sure it is a thick one.) snap the rubber band, you will then think before you do something stupid, cuz that band is going to hurt you before you hurt someone else, my son learned this with his counseler, and it has worked for him for the past couple of weeks, and he has put holes in my walls...
2007-03-12 12:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by krista a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea I can help...so what if you don't like her get a life grow up and start being accountable for your actions. Your not the biggiest or the badiest around and trust and belive the road your going down will only teach you all too well. Juvie is a drop in the bucket compared to were you will be if you really hurt someone. In some states you can be tried as an adult at 13yrs old, depends on the crime. Here your sign.....GROW UP>>>>>GET A LIFE>>>>>>>
2007-03-12 19:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by loving U 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you have to do is the next time you feel like you're just going to burst. Take a deep breath and slowly count to ten. Hopefully by the time you get ten you won't feel as angry anymore. Just take a deep breath and relax.
People can be rude and mean. You're going to run across people like this throughout your life. It's good to get control of it now. Remember who you are. You don't have to care what other people say. Be proud of who you are, and then it won't matter what people say. If you ignore her eventually she's going to get bored and will leave you alone. Good luck! I know you can do it.
2007-03-12 19:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by pawt72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried telling someone in school? I mean if you know that at the end you know that if she keeps it up you well do something that will get you in trouble, let the school know that she is constantly bothering you and you have told her once before to stop. Im sure that the school can do something about that.
2007-03-12 19:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to a friend of mine too. do u know what she did
very simple: SHE totally ignored her enemy , if you do this , then this girl will know her words cant get to you and will leave you alone , otherwise if she continues to bother you , talk to the principal about it , after all shes the one that must be expelled for such behavior toward other students!!!!
2007-03-12 19:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by damoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents and teachers, and get some more help for your anger!
2007-03-12 19:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay girl....one stay away from the girl.
two; do you want to go to juvie...know think about it before you start some s**t you will regreat.
three; everybody has anger managment they need to control.
four; pray to god and talk to him to help you also KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOUR SELF.
just trying to help you my love!!!
2007-03-12 19:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into counseling or therapy and work through your anger.
2007-03-12 19:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always think calm there is no reason to be mad. obviously she is just trying to get on your nerves. and its working! let her do it. just ignore it and be smart with your comments. be sarcastic. have fun. but dont be mad!
2007-03-12 19:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by hubba54 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋