My family has alot of problems. My mom wanst to divorice my dad so badly and I think he realizes it so he's trying to make it look like I'm trying to break the family up. I think he's going after me because my mom and I are so close and I'll encourage her and stand by her all the way when ever she leave the jerk.
But I don't know how to deal with him anymore. He makes fun of everything I do, he's called me fugly, dumb, he makes fun of my weight, when I'm upset he'll yell at me and constantly tells my mom about how I'm trying to break the family apart and I'm such a b*tch and an ingrate, ext.
Today he told my mom that when he picked me up from the gym that he tried to talk to me and said Hello to me, and he told my mom all i did was turn and give him a real dirty look and ignor him...but infact he never said anything and i didn't even look at him!
He keeps making up all these stories, and I've absolutly no idea how to deal with him anymore, I hate this man with a passion. Help?
2007-03-12 11:54:31 · 3 answers · asked by toronto_leafs 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
He'll comment on how because I'm so heavy I make the car shake evertime I move...I have bad body image issues already, and people think i'm ED-NOS to begin with....
I don't know how to deal with him, and all i'm doing is taking it out on myself.
2007-03-12 11:56:02 · update #1
Well that sounds awful, that is a type of abuse. It's not right. Tell your mom you're relying on her to stop this. He can say that YOU are trying to break up the family, when really it's him actually doing it. He's trying to put the blame on you to make himself feel better.
He sounds like a bully to me.
2007-03-12 12:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you could do is sit down with him and your mother and have a family discussion, if he is making you feel this way he is probably making your mother feel the same so she will not have enough strength to leave him. if you all sit down and talk about it, it may help.
2007-03-12 12:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him in front of your mother,see if he squirms at your question put to him while she is there,at the moment your mom is ,or it seems,is getting stories about you second hand.don't take this abuse,stand up for yourself.luck to you.
2007-03-12 12:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋