Do you ever just feel like you love your loved one so much, it makes you crazy and that it runs your life...
2007-03-12 11:40:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah it does drive you crazy especially when youve never felt like that before. And... its the kind of feeling that your not use to, its that feeling that your so foreign to, and that you werent expecting and its come to you.
Thats how I feel with my mate, you like him so much... that he turns your world upside down, he makes you see a new world of possibilities that you thought never existed, he gives a new light kinda thing, ohmigosh this just does not make sense but I guess thats the price we pay 4 fallin 4 someone & we cant control it.
Dont let it run your life, just accept the fact that your in love with him, cause I think maybe its come abit of a shock that you feel like this. So accept how you feel & you may notice a difference.
& YES remember that you too have a life to lead, so dont forget your ambitions & goals. Cause you can love someone but you can also live your life ;) So dont forget to live. Email me if you wnt 2 chat some more
All the best and Good Luck!
2007-03-12 11:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that Love, in and of itself, can take over your life, but there are alot of things that we associate with Love that could do so.
Do you love so strongly because you are afraid to be alone, afraid to lose the loved one(s), afraid to not have Love returned, or something else perhaps?
It seems that there is something else going on here, something that you perhaps don't even notice. Whatever it is, it could be making you obsess over Love and your loved ones. Obsession, of any kind, can be unhealthy.
I would reccomend trying to figure out what's making you focus so much on your Loved ones, determining whether or not is (or could be) unhealthy for you (I'd never deign to tell someone what is the right or wrong amount to love somebody else), and trying to make some lifestyle changes, if needed.
All you might need to do is focus more on you and your needs. Take some time for yourself. It could be just what's needed to balance it all out. Moderation and balance are the key to just about everything in life. :)
Good luck.
2007-03-12 11:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by Brian Sparta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know ,it actually sounds like you have more of an obsession than love..and I would be really careful here...I have already been in these waters...and it isn't good, I was knocked over by a huge tidal wave with the reality!
At least I have finally learned how to let go....but, it took too long for me, not to "want" to see the "real" picture!!!
I thought that I was deeply in love with an ex- of mine..but, I think that I had become a lot more obsessed with him....finding out the truth about him and finding him..changed everything for me...thank God!!! I no longer have this strange sense of "yearning to have him"...it is thankfully gone!
His other "women" can have him! He is a very bad person for me to ":fall for",.....he didn't know how to be honest..and I am sure that he is unfortunately still as warped as I once knew him...only maybe worse, now! Be cautious....
2007-03-12 11:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but that's what you know it's getting unhealthy.
A relationship shouldn't RUN your life. It shouldn't consume every part of you. If it does, you need to take a break and focus on something else for a little while. That's not to mean you should just break up, but you should take a little time out of spending too much time with him.
It's an obsessive part of the honeymoon stage.
2007-03-12 11:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and find a way to control this. This is not a good thing. Make sure you taking care of yourself at the same time. Stick to your goals/beliefs and don't change them for anyone. You're asking for trouble, down the road, if you don't stay focus on your needs.
2007-03-12 11:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like infactuation. True love is actually not very earth shattering. It is things you have in common, wanting to be with that other person, caring for them more than yourself. All the super excitement and hyper reaction is just a phase, just a misconception of love.
2007-03-12 11:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idont feel like that but if you do then you need to make some me time. Sometimes i have to do that in my relationship just be by my self for a while and also give your partna space. It helps for you too not to feel smothered. If you do feel like that though try to do more so your mind is occupied and not just idle thinking about your loved one
2007-03-12 11:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Emotions" may take over. But Love never will. You may "want" someone, so much that it takes over. But that's just your own needs. There's nothing wrong with it? Just know that you do it? And explain to the other, that you do it.
2007-03-12 11:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sometimes if u dont know how to keep a balance between ur loved one and the rest of the world it can hurt u.
2007-03-12 11:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by Tati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called infatuation honey. Real love starts when infatuation ends and you still want to be with that person.
2007-03-12 11:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋