Please do not list abuse, infidelity, violence, etc. These are all known & common.
2007-03-12 11:38:17 · 19 answers · asked by Daiquiri Dream 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a drinker. My first husband was drunk. I wouldn't go that route again.
2007-03-12 11:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different long-term life goals, such as having/not having children, wanting/not wanting to get married, wanting/not wanting to live abroad, one being religious and the other hating church, etc. It's better to break up in the beginning of the relationship than to wait years and then find out that the other person still has not changed his mind about what he wants, and you wasted all that time wishing that he would change someday.
2007-03-12 18:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Paty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was told this by a friend of mine. At first I thought it was ridiculous. However, upon further reflection, I believe it's really important... especially if you want this new relationship to turn into something serious and long-term.
What is it? Sexual compatibility! Being unsatisfied (either party) will eventually lead t problems down the road.
2007-03-12 18:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by as90024 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I dated a man who had kids and an ex wife, that would be a deal breaker for me.
2007-03-13 16:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The deal breaker for me would be poor hygiene. Nothing in the world turns me off faster.
2007-03-12 18:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by katydid 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This biggest for me would be not sharing my sense of humor. If you can't laugh at the same stuff now, you'd be pretty bored together in the long run.
I have actually decided not to date a guy because he didn't laugh when I quoted the Chuck Norris Fact Generator.
2007-03-12 18:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by LindsayBluthFunke 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course you are right about the drugs, abuse, etc. But here's one thing people don't think about until too late:
A Mama's boy because his mother will be a meddler because she can't help it! He's always let her be!
2007-03-12 18:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A boring dude that never wants to do anything or go anywhere
A liar
Drug / alcohol abuser
A dude that wants kids.....I refuse to procreate again!!!
An extremly lazy man
A man that is more b*tch than me
A guy who couldnt handle my independence
A clingy man
2007-03-12 18:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Him having kids is a deal-breaker.
2007-03-12 19:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thinking that sex is something to compromise on, rather then an obligation to fulfill one another's needs in a monogamous relationship.
2007-03-13 12:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lying. Making fun of me. Irresponsibility.
2007-03-12 18:42:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋