my 15 year old got pregnet by a 21 year old they are now married.the juvinile judge granted permission for them and now the state has took over the case.says he has cometed unlawful sexual conduct with a minor..how can they say that with them being married,hes here elegail.he has a good paying job hes supporting his family.he goes back to court soon..how can i help him from getting charged or deported.is there anyone or thing that can help them stay together as a family..i dont want anything to happen .is there away his boss can help him.im so worried my daughter will be raising there baby alone ..its not fair things happen,but hes not leaving like alot of guys do.plzz help thank u
2007-03-12 11:30:56 · 6 answers · asked by why_them 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
It is not legal for a 21 year old to have sexual relations with someone who is 15 years old.
2007-03-12 11:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bawney 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Let me make this clear. your daughter is a kid, he is NOT. Be honest about that. You did not protect her as a mother should. What kind of future do you think they'll have even without this issue? Learn from the mistakes and hope for a better life. What can be done now...try to salvage a family.
You need a good experienced attorney. The best you can afford. No question. Bottom line.
Also, birthcontrol for your daughter after she delivers AND a box of condoms for your son-in-law. This situation has "welfare" written all over it and I have kids of my own. I don't want to pay for yours too. Especially not another one.
2007-03-12 20:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Joe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's here illegally; he committed statutory rape, since a minor cannot consent to sex - and you want to SUPPORT this person? Gee, that's a great example to set your daughter.
First, the baby needs to go up for adoption - it will have a much better chance in life than your daughter can offer it. Second, she needs to get the marriage annulled, and third, you need to report this guy to the authorities so that he'll get deported.
Did the court KNOW he was illegal when they allowed the marriage? I don't think so! They would have sent him back to his own country.
2007-03-12 18:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
go to www.findlaw.com and find your states law. wow. wierd. normally if they are married nothing can be done in most states. where you>
2007-03-12 18:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by CCC 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That was a full-grown man fiddling with a CHILD - he is a CHILD MOLESTOR....he deserves to be in jail!!
2007-03-12 18:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Susie D 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
He is a pedophile and should be deported.
2007-03-13 00:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jan 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋