Okay, there's this guy who I've been friends with for years. And still am friends with. And we've sadly enough always hung out with the same people and it gets really boring. And well theyre all 6' or taller, and seeing as how im 5'6'' I ALWAYS get the **** end of things, sometimes when I'm there they tell me to shut up, they draw on my face and all this ridiculous ****, now I know it's funny stuff, but not when it happens all the time. But I've stopped hanging out with them pretty much, cause they NEVER hang out with girls which I think is downright pathetic, and NOW I've been hearing stuff about them saying things, I don't think he's that good of a friend anymore, so, should I embarass him so he'll shut up and respect me?
Oh yea and I forgot to add one of the other guys made out with my cousin and didn't tell me, one of my better friends did
2007-03-12 11:22:38 · 16 answers · asked by rds_pyro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've never been in a serious fight though.
But then again neither has he. haha
The thing is though, I know how to fight, and believe me, my dad was a scrapper when he was younger, I'm fast and agile, I know how to get it done hahaha
2007-03-12 11:26:07 · update #1
I say you talk it over if he doesnt listen then yes (but only if your shure you can win.)
2007-03-12 11:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by baseballplayer 1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to be a guy but theres more to being a guy than hanging out and joking around. And that my friend is girls. You do like girls....don't you? Then you need to get busy and look around and find a girl !! It kinda sounds like the old saying 2's company, 3's a crowd, 4's too many,5's not allowed and you're the fifth guy and they tolerate you as long as you take their B.S. and let'em humiliate you and when you back off from'em the truth comes out. It's not worth the drama to fight'em just forget'em and get a girlfriend and let'em talk it's just words! As for the guy making it w/your cousin...unless he's over 18 and she's a minor..probably best to leave it between your cousin and him..that might cause family trouble. And sounds like the "friend" that you say is one of you're better friends..might've told you to stir things up? I don't know him so it's up to you to be the judge on that. Now go get that girl!!
2007-03-12 11:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by G=ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to be very straight forward..and say How does this friend REALLY make you feel inside? Do you like when they hurt your feelings, talk behind your back? Wouldn't you rather have respect from a friend, than none at all? Wouldn't you prefer the kind of consideration there is as to trust, honesty,and understanding? What do YOU want in a honest to goodness friendship? This choice is all up to you...but, Only you can figure this out! I am just giving you some thoughts a la carte! Just want you to ask yourself "Am I worth having great friends that stick by me..and don't play head trips with me...or games on the side?" Am I worth the emotional "imaturity "from a group of guys...or should I get the "picture" and move on, with my wonderful self?!!!"
You think on this!
But, since I have been there... I am gonna tell you, I am worth more than getting beat up, my feelings crushed, no respect, no trust..dishonesty, true friendship.....etc...I am worth that ...I love my friends very much..and I worry about them...I think highly of them..and speak well of them, whenever...even if I worry about them,and even if we don't always see eye to eye! I care!!!!They have certainly been there for me...so I am gonna be there for them!!!
2007-03-12 11:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by ladyk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These people were never your friends. Don't worry about the stupid sh!t these idiots are saying. Theres really no need to go out of your way to embarrass these guys, i think they do a pretty good job embarrassing themselves everyday, don't you? Just laugh at them and pity them because they're never going to grow up and get girlfriends and lives while you will.
Stay away from them and try to focus on getting some friends that are going to respect you.
2007-03-12 11:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't recommend a fight obviously, as that would be almost pathetic too.
I think talking to him would be enough to stress the message across that you no longer like him/tell him what you feel etc.
If you really think it's necessary then why not? Maybe it would come across as a smack in the face to him - get it? Never mind. :)
2007-03-12 11:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by - 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look what you should do is just leave it alone...who care's if the dude made out with your cousin....to be homest with you, thats really not your problem...its not like he hit her or anything...if she didnt do anything to stop the kiss then its clear that she wanted to make out with him.
And about the hole thing about them talking s.h.i.t about you, just leave it alone....you say that they dont even hanh iout with female, it seems to me that they have noothing better to do than to run their mouth.
I think you should find yourself a good looking female, and give them something to talk about. Fighting never solves anything, it just makes things so much worse than they really are.
2007-03-12 11:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you have made up your mind, after all you've made up every excuse under the sun to fight but just maybe you forgot just one how about the one to show off in front of you'r new found friends? Don't get me wrong what they done wasn't right but they were you'r friends right? you pick them right? Sounds to me you just need to move on and stop trying to impress your new friends..........
2007-03-12 11:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would fight with someone to embarrass him and make him shut up? Are you kidding? All you will do is provoke him and his friends. Then look out for more trouble.
2007-03-12 11:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't fight him, what good it that really going to do you? Just quit hanging out with them completly and move on with your life if you think they are pathetic anyway then why hang with them.
2007-03-12 11:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you should fight your friend because sometimes they think that you are not capable of standing up for yourself so until you do then you will be forever picked on.
2007-03-12 11:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by love child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, what is fighting him going to solve? Go on with your life, it sounds like your friend wasn't a friend after all. You could try talking to him one on one but, don't fight, it gets you nowhere.
2007-03-12 11:31:54 · answer #11 · answered by shortcake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋