I haven't seen him in three months, and I still think about him and miss him every day. I know there is no way I will ever see him again, but every day I want to see him more than the last. Every song on the radio reminds me of him. The worst thing is that I am with someone else, but I am always thinking of him, no matter how hard I try to forget and focus on my relationship with the man I am with (who I do love). How do I get him out of my head so I can move on with the man I am with?
2007-03-12 11:20:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It all depends on the person and how deep the feelings are. You may need counseling and help to get over this person and to start to let go of the feelings. This will take time and I dont not feel there is a set time limit here in stone. It may take six months to a year or even longer. I dont think you will ever forget the person BUT you may learn to live life without thinking of them so much and you will need to let the feelings go so you can go on with life happily. Good luck to you. Start making new memories with your new guy and love him and focus on just him alone. As i said you may need counseling and therapy to get past this other person.
2007-03-12 12:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you will have to just live with it. Some feelings never change even with the passage of time. Coming to grips with the feeling of love lost can be a sad thing for such a good feeling. Try to focus on the good feeling and let that overflow into your current relationship and see if it brings about something for your boyfriend. Never can tell but it will come back to you.
2007-03-12 18:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't love the person you are with enough to give them the undivided attention they deserve. Are your feelings for the other person reciprocated? If so, you need to re-examine what you are doing. If not then just give it time and lots of it. Getting over someone is never an easy thing but you need to move forward with your life one way or the other. Right now you are just existing. Trust me, I have been there,!
2007-03-12 18:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you keep thinking of him maybe you are not ready to give him up. I have been married for 6 years and have had an ex in my head for the last 8 years (he was taken so I moved on and I regret it). I try to tell myself that i need to give him up but i cant that is where my heart is. We can't tell you how long it will be it is all up to your heart. Listen to it.
2007-03-12 18:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by ccastr1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, like many of us, will never get him out of your mind completely. When you love someone to that extent, you never stop loving them, or forget about them. What you WILL do, is learn to deal with it, and go on with your life. That process will take a year or so. Good Luck!
2007-03-12 18:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It usually takes six months, so you are half way there. I've been there before - for me my schedule got so busy and i started meeting so many new people. It's like out of sight out of mind. Be careful though because when I finally got the guy out of mind (it took 6 mths.) he came back into my life.
2007-03-12 18:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Elle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really know your feelings , i empathize with you ,,, its hard.
maybe that guy doesn't worth it (I'm saying Maybe), maybe if you see him again and know him better, you'll find out that he doesn't worth it (maybe).
and if he's good, why didn't he tries to find you?
now try not to think about him (I'm saying Try, though i know its hard), and enjoy your time with the guy you're dating.
2007-03-12 18:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by adiga_5ijabz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋