me and my exboyfriend went out for a couple of months. We broke up and started talking again everything was going good. We were planning on getting back but he would always say he had to take care of some business first. One day i made him tell me what it was and he said that he had a girlfriend, and he was going to break up with her so we could get back together. The night before he left to bootcamp he said he still hadnt broken up with her but as soon as he got out he would. We have been wrtitng to each other should i just move on with my life or should i wait for him? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 11:17:20 · 10 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sounds like he might be using you for fanmail. if he really wanted to be with you...he would dump her. there is really nothing for you to do...either wait for him to dump her...or move on.
2007-03-12 11:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by pamcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he told you in the first time , he was going to break up with that girl , but he didn't , he probably wont this time either and think about this , if he has been cheating in that girl HE WILL WITH YOU TOO. have you ever heard this saying:theres beauty on simplicity! meaning dont complicate your life for a guy that is not worth it , he may not appreciate you enough if he always have another business to care of! my advice for you is to move on and find a non-problematic guy , which always will be there for you and only YOU! don't delay any more of your life for LIES! and go with what is best for you!
good luck with that!
2007-03-12 18:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by damoon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If he really wanted to break up with his girlfriend for you, nothing would have stopped him. He would have done it already. It sounds to me like he is playing games. Maybe he feels like a "pimp" right now. I'm pretty sure he is writing his girlfriend as well. Please do not waste your time waiting on this guy. He seems sneaky and untrustworthy. You deserve better! Move on! If you don't, when you get older you will look back on it and be mad at yourself for wasting your time
2007-03-12 19:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to break up with her now and then when you have verified that you guys can start talking about getting back together again. Don't be a fool and let him play you or her like that.
2007-03-12 18:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see if he is really going to comit to breaking up with her and start going back out with you. but you should move on because you deserve better than him. The way I see it is that he doesn't deserve a person like you. Unless he's really sorry and not going out with that girl still.
2007-03-12 18:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him he can't have his cake and eat it too. If he wants to be with you and continue the relationship then he has to end it with his girlfriend immediately. If he doesn't end it then just tell him sorry and move on. You don't deserve to be strung along or be "the other woman."
2007-03-12 18:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait for him hes just saying ur my backup cuz she lives over by me but when i move back ur there dont let him pursuade u beleive me i have hated my ex bf for months cuz what he did with some other girl..take my advise dont get back to gether with him hes not worth it
2007-03-12 20:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by someebeooddyyy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY, WOULD YOU WANT TO GO BACK WITH A EX BF THAT CAME FROM BOOTCAMP? DO YOU WANT MORE TROUBLE CAUSE HE IS NOTHING BUT TROUBLE ..MOVE ON AND FIND A DECENT GUY ..AND NO ONE FROM BOOTCAMP AND /OR NO ONE FROM JAIL..GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU!
2007-03-12 18:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Swm 39 4 Younger Swf Forever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offens but he is messed up but if he is head over heals in luv with you you should go for it and if u still like him well you should wait so what i am really saying is that you should follow your heart no one can tell you what to do but your self.
2007-03-12 19:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by livingexperience 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say no
2007-03-12 18:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋