This guy, "Ryan", from my homeschool co-op continually threatens and insults me. He verbally assaults me and he's gotten physical with me a few times (A push here, a punch there) I feel scared to stand up to him since he boxes on a state circuit and he's around 2 inches taller than me and weighs about 100 pounds more than me. (I'm around 6' and 170. You do the math) I've tried to talk to his mom, but it hasn't worked. He scares me and he recently threatened me again, but he means it this time. I've taken kung fu for a while, so he's told me he'll come for me at kung fu. I'm terrified. WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT IT?
2007-03-12 11:01:08 · 7 answers · asked by Sir Nigel 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm homeschooled, so there's no teachers. I run into him though since we have a co-op of about 10 kids who do school together.
2007-03-12 11:11:49 · update #1
I'm 15, he's 17.
2007-03-12 11:45:18 · update #2
tell him that if he doesnt stop it you will call the police, and then if he doesn't stop, call the police. Also, happy people don't bully people. Its the unhappy people that do it to make themselves feel better. So try finding what makes him be the way he is, find his flaws and things that he is insecure about and HAMMER him.
2007-03-12 11:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a bunch of your friends together, wear ski masks and black clothing, then when the time is right, jump him! nah... im just messing with ya! how old are you? stand up for ur self or find out who his boxing trainer is then make an anonimous call telling him he mis-uses his training as a boxer to bully people around.I dont know dude ive never had that problem before.
2007-03-12 18:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your mom. Or u can stand up to him.If u tell him to leave u alone and he hits u then u can take pics and take him to court.It is against the law to hit people.It doesn't matter what age u are.Plus u can take up boxing.The point is try not to be afraid of him.The reason why is there will be a bully in your life alot of the time.So u need to beable to stand up for yourself.Another thing is if he hits u he can be introuble with his coach.Big time...Good luck
2007-03-12 18:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you have a bully on your hands! Have you tried getting your parents to talk to his parents? Is he always with a group of friends? If he isnt then have you tried saying "hey can we talk about this"? I dont know why bullys do this to people smaller than them its quite pathetic of him actually. Dont feel scared because thats what he wants try to be strong! Maybe telling your teacher or the principal might help.
2007-03-12 18:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by sweet redhead! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What school do you go to? Itsa the law for 0 tolernce for that. Tell you teacher/Guidence councler/ princapal. They will understand and have a sit down with him and all that. In the mean time tell you mom.
2007-03-12 18:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by MightyE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stand your ground. You might get beat up (and he will get in lots of trouble), but you will still have your pride.
2007-03-12 18:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea call the police or if your in the US call 911
2007-03-12 18:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋