What to do??

Question

What do I do if my siste is obsesed with having sex???? I have tried talking to her about the risks and what can happen but she won't listen to me...she sneaks out of her room every night and I didn't want to tell my parents because then she would be mad at me but I having second thoughts about doing so and telling my parents what should I do???? She keeps telling me her boyfriend is making her have sex with him but he is a good kid and I know his older brother and they aren't that way.. My sister is 14 and I am 17

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Answer 1

tell your parents if she ignores you but ask your parents to make it seem like they found out on their own

Answer 2

Is your sister's boyfriend pulling her out of her room? Then he's not "forcing" her to sneak out and have sex. If STD's don't scare her, show her this letter. I didn't talk to my parents about sex, I snuck out, and at 15 I got pregnant. At 16 yrs. old I was a sophomore in high school, a single mom (because most high school relationships do not last, sorry teens!), and I had 3 jobs. YES 3 jobs to care for me and my son. If telling your parents is absolutely impossible, take her to the nearest health clinic yourself, and make sure she gets to see a tape of a woman giving birth. If that doesn't scare her, let her know once you have a baby, you no longer matter and do not have a life, you live for that child. I know that's alot to put on your shoulders, but sometimes sisters have to take care of each other. And if possible, try to get her to talk to your parents. A counselor at the clinic can help with that conversation. Good luck, and I hope things work out.

Answer 3

yes i think you need to let them know that she's been sneaking out. Granted she's going to find a way to have sex but hopefully when your parents find out that they'll be responsible enough to take her to a planned parenthood place and at least have her tested. If she's saying the sex is forced then the parents need to be involved. if they're both 14 they need some parental supervision.

Answer 4

Your sister will get over being mad at you. Inform your parents..............let them talk to her and address this very serious situation. They are her parents and that is what parents do. You should not be responsible for taking care of her. I know it is hard - but you are only a sibling and want whats best for her.

Answer 5

Sex is as a drug, specially during the first experiences!
You can say anything you want now but every night she always will go away to get her hot friend. You only can give her some condom talking about fecundation and pregnancy so probable at that age!

Answer 6

Talk to her about the risks of unprotected sex. Moreover tell her about her responsibilites. Every kid thinks they are right because they do not know about their responsibilities. If you tell her about her responsibilities towards your parents and others then she will understand you. She is too young and premature to have sex. If she still does not listen to you, then tell your parents. But first try your level best to stop her. If she does not stop, tell her that you will tell your parents about it. If she does not still listen to you, then tell you parents before its too late.

Answer 7

You have to tell your parents!
Yes, your sister will be cross, but what's more important- your feelings, or her health?

Answer 8

You should tell them behind her back. Let them "catch" her "on their own". You're being a good sister. You're doing this out of love, not meaness. Good job :)

Answer 9

You need to tell your parents.

Answer 10

Get over it