I had a rough time with friends when i was younger. I met a really nice person (lets call her k) Well k and i were Best FRIENDS. we were hanging out all the time and constanly on the phone. i never had a friend like her. well things happened and now i dont think she or her mom trusts me. i cant tell u wut happened. ive called a million times and asked if she wants to hang but all the sudden she got a life and is busy. im really depressed because she was my bff and never had so much fun. now things arent the same and i wish i could stop what happened. i cry so much becuase of this, im crying right now and its hard to see what im typing. my life went from perfect to worthless. i miss her soo much. we still talk in school kinda but i hang with other people more. things just arnt right i want to fix things up but i probly cant. i want to tell her but i dont what shed do.
2007-03-12 10:24:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well if she's not talking to you at all write her a note, but if you are just outright apoligize and tell her how much you miss her. I don't know what you did or I would give more direct advice, but that is what seems best.
2007-03-12 10:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by freakishrockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try one letter but address it to her and her mum attempting to really apologise for whatever you have done and asking if you could see K sometimes and promising that whatever the things were that happened will never happen again. I don't honestly know if this will do any good or not but could be worth a try. If the response from her and her mum is still that they don't really want to know you any more then I am sorry to say you should just let it go. You will eventually feel better and any more efforts at contacting them would just make them feel you were harrassing them. I don't know your age but imagine you are a young teenager? I believe in giving a second chance to people sorry for their mistakes but as a mum if one of my family had been led in to trouble or were friendly with someone who had been in some sort of trouble I really would be extremely cautious of them being involved with this person again. I don't honestly know if I could trust the person again. Only you know how serious these things that happened were and only K and her mum can decide if they want you in their lives again. Whatever happens don't go backwards and repeat any past wrong doings. Good luck!!!
2007-03-12 12:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've already been through what your goin through ...
most importantly i learnt from it n conquered my own level of thinkin. ..people come n go.. everyone is lookin for the perfect person.. thats why they link more than 1 ...to find out who is the "right one" you should forget her if she aint cumin back atleast do your own thing ...love will come your way when it comes ..you should carry on n stop layin in the ocean..its deep n most people wont even help or hear you speak !!! girls/boys find out for themselves later what they did wrong that made others feel they were nuthin to them ...you need to change and start thinkin postive ...i've left all my mates cause half of them were fake !! now that i've changed track ..i stll have the same people call me back but i dont link em no more cause i know how they are unless they've changed they still the same !! if you have a game plan work with it remember the one who saves in his time later his wife n him will be livin the luxuary life so allow people n what they think achive your goals live your life make em blink !! lol dont cry you killin your eye sight slowly over nuthin ....learn from how you feel n deal wit it wit skill ...friends come n go for REAL !!!
2007-03-13 00:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by THUG LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In situations like this...I say write her a letter. Not a text or email. Let her know how you feel. Did you do something to hurt her...if so, let her know that you will make up for that. Be sincere. Plus you need to build up your self esteem, people dont like being around others that are always down...perk up, you'll meet new people easier. I hope things go well for you and your friend!
2007-03-12 16:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by YaShen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just move on. She has moved on and no problem at all. You should try and do the same. Obviously you don't mean the same to her.
2007-03-12 10:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
based on her response, it sounds as though she is really hurt, betrayed, upset with you regarding whatever it was that happened....sometimes we just have to accept that and move on, I recommend seeing a therapist to help you over this bad time.
2007-03-12 10:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by Neenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it now do you ever go back to school?
Life is all about moving on (touch)
2007-03-12 11:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by 000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋