him. For example, for me, it is when a man cooks for me. I am turned on by chefs! So, what is it (behavior/action) that does it for you?
This may not seem to be a question for the philosophy category, but it is-I don't want the immaturity from the sex and dating category.
2007-03-12 10:24:41 · 12 answers · asked by Salsa 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
When I see a guy playing with kids, and he's really having fun.
I usually fall for the teacher/camp counselor type.
Playing the guitar and or singing is also very attractive.
Oh yeah, and splitting fire logs.
2007-03-12 17:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Emily R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence, for two reasons:
(1) You can't stay interested in someone very long if you can't have an engaging conversation with them, and many a relationship begins with a spontaneous chat that turns into a 5 hour conversation about everything under the sun (you know you've all had them...).
(2) Battles of wit are by FAR the most thrilling form of flirtation. Batting your eyelashes and playing with your hair and giggling and all that nonsense is both boring and stupid. A nice saucy verbal spar is the biggest turn on EVER.
2007-03-12 18:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by IQ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chivalry is the most attractive quality: a man who acts like a gentleman and treats you like a lady; both taking charge and being respectful. A lot of girls say they want a guy like that, but then they go around acting crudely or trying to be the boss in the relationship; you don’t have to be old-fashioned to realize you can’t have it both ways, girls!
2007-03-12 18:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cassandria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... I'm not attracted to guys much, myself. But I can tell you that one thing that REALLY attracts me to a woman is brains and a quick wit.
I met a woman once who had three college degrees, spoke five languages, and spent a year studying primates in Indonesia. I was dreaming about her for weeks. She still gets me a little excited, thinking about her.
Thanks for the warm memory! ( :
2007-03-12 17:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Doctor Why 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A confident sense of humor. A guy that can tell a funny joke or story, without it having to be stupid, gross or immature, and be entertaining. My husband is like this, I think that's one of the main reasons we married.
2007-03-12 17:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by moon_maiden42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quick witted, funny, intelligent and spiritual guys and most of all guys who are mysterious, something about a guy that has a smashing sex appeal, doesnt say much and you know that he notices you but will only give u few glances..and lastly a guy who smells like heaven..
2007-03-12 18:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by arcaneuniverse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a man does any selfless act for me, is a major turn on.
2007-03-12 17:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by chevy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A major turn-on for me is when a woman and I have a very intelligent and meaningful conversation. It's absolutely sexy.
2007-03-12 18:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by bladeshaven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The biggest turn-on to me is a warm, genuine smile that melts my heart.
2007-03-12 18:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy that is not very social, because neither am i...that way, when we are together, i know it is really something...i know he wont go and flirt, and i know that i must be doing something right for him to talk to me.
2007-03-12 18:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by B 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋