2007-03-12 10:19:34 · 18 answers · asked by ahole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't. If she doesn't want to tread there, you can't make her.
2007-03-12 10:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Start by growing up.
After that, you will know your wife is not your toy.
Then, understand she is the way she is, and you can not change that.
Would you go and make out with another guy if she asked you? I don’t think so, would you?
If you really want to see her having sex with another woman (and maybe having a threesome), then the only thing you can do is suggest it to her, and see what she says. If the answer is a perfect ”NO”, then there, she is not interested and you must drop the problem there and forget about it forever, or at least until she brings it up again if ever.
If she is not sure, or would think about it, or gives you a “maybe”, then don’t push it, just accept it, and show her how exited you are about it. And drop it too, she will do it when she is ready and trust me, she will make sure you know about it.
And I won’t go over the last option which is YES as obviously you are asking so she is not interested.
Don’t forget, to bring a third party in a relation could mean bad news. Unless both of you agree, and are grown up enough to understand the difference between sex, making love, and having sex while making love, you are not good to add a third person in the relation. Period.
And obviously… you are not there yet.
Sorry for the bad news, but if you are really married, then you should start to think like a grown up man, not a horny teenager.
Good luck, be safe, and don’t destroy your matrimony over a fantasy.
2007-03-12 17:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Make sure the other woman cooks, cleans, babysits, massages, and does everything else you're not doing because you are sitting around trying to get your wife to like women.
2007-03-12 20:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been bi since age 17....many moons ago.
I would caution you as this fantasy has ruined more marriages than you could imagine.
Cant you just watch girl on girl porn and not run the risk of effing up your marriage.
Its one of the reasons my marriage sux to this day.
2007-03-12 17:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
if she's straight, you can't - why do men think a woman could be convinced to want another woman, could you be convinced to want another man?
Yay Dan D, best answer for sure!!
2007-03-12 17:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So...you want a threesome but she doesn't?
Dude, nothing you can say is going to convince her to want another woman. Think again.
2007-03-12 17:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being you. Eventually she'll get fed up with men and give women a try.
2007-03-12 17:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she does not already have those inclinations, you won't 'get' her to want another woman.
2007-03-12 17:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a strip joint and buy her a lap dance with a really sexy girl. It made me stop and think twice.
2007-03-12 17:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you dont... if being with more than one woman is your primary concern perhaps you shouldnt be married in the first place.
2007-03-12 17:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by carrol_87 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would get her drunk and invite one of her friend over who you might know that is kind of into your wife or maybe your wife might think is hot. Or watch a porn movie and see what she thinks about a threesomes.
2007-03-12 17:25:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋