I want to divorce my husband, how do I tell him?

Question

We have been married less than a year. We hardly ever have sex, and I have given up in that area. He spends several hundred dollars a month on DVD's from the internet, many of them porn. We have been fighting on and off about whether I am an individual or not. He has changed from when we were dating and even from when we first got married. He prefers to go out with his guy firends, and even alone with some girls he knows, and he will leave me at home or do this when I am at work. I feel neglected and I want to divorce him and make a fresh start for myself. Other men have expressed interest in me, though I won't cheat on my husband. He says he still loves me, but I don't want to be in this relationship anymore. Help?

Answer 1

A newly married man that prefers to go out with his guy friends as well as different girls doesn't deserve to be married. If he can't figure out that you are an individual and don't like to be left home alone, then he doesn't deserve you. What is it he loves about you? The fact that you're earning money, cleaning the house, cooking and doing the laundry while he goes out and has a good time?

Sit this guy down and explain to him clearly that this is not what you signed on for and if he can't stay home and act like a husband, you're through. If he can't understand while you're all upset, cut your losses, move this guy out and find someone who respects you. You deserve better, so much better.

Answer 2

I think you should leave, you are a women who deserves way better. Leave him and fine someone who will treat you like a real women. Obviously your husband doesn't know how to love a women. he sys he still loves you?....well he has a weird way of showing it.

Answer 3

that's like a good wife .you always think a good for your husband but you cant know that ,if you love your husband so much than you could be patience ok dear