2007-03-12 10:01:03 · 13 answers · asked by Kirsty X UK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is probably only his fantasies, not his sex lives - he probably only w*nks!!
2007-03-12 10:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by saintee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this same thing where my friend often tells me about him and his girlfriend, the only difference is that I dont really mind at all and dont think much of it.
How ever in your case, try dropping subtle hints. When he mentions something in a casual way laugh and say "Ha, why are you telling me?" with a smile. Or even in a fun manner say "Whoa! To much information haha." He probably wont think much of it and think you weird but he will subconciously be turned away from bringing up the subject next time.
2007-03-12 10:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by lifes_confusing_soask 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend of actual boyfriend? It the latter get shot of him quick. If it is a friend and he considers you close he may want to confide in you. If it is about 1 girlfried then you should tell him in no uncertain terms you don't think much of him talking about something so private and if he tells you these things how could you ever tell him something you didn't want passed on? If it's purely about his conquests, he is just immature and probably most of it is all in his mind and he thinks you'll be impressed. No easy way to get through to him tell him you are just not interested, absolutely bored stiff listenting to him and you just don't want to know. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. Go for it!!!
2007-03-12 12:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well our friend stopped doing that when we started taking the mickey out of what he said-we made out that he was doing it wrong,or that he sounded a bit inexperienced...he soon shut up and stopped bragging!
2007-03-12 11:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ignore while they're talking about his sex life it always works.
2007-03-12 10:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by grismar d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to ceasse talking about his past when you 're together.He must take care about you not about his sex life. If he persists ,leave him.
Don't feel seek, it's bad for your health.
2007-03-12 11:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Johny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try vomiting (little britain style) or failing that just blurt it out that you really dont want to know... he might be offended for a lil while but at least it will shut him up xx
2007-03-12 10:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Cat Lady♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest the next time he starts talking about him and tell him that you rather not hear his personal or sex life... and that he shouldn't be bragging and instead keep it personal... and respect your boundaries....
2007-03-12 10:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by Wenke_91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell its good he is enjoying himself but could you talk about something else he will soon get the message!
2007-03-12 10:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by astra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest darling just say you dont want to keep hearing the guri details
2007-03-12 23:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋