I broke up with my bf few days ago and i can't cope...I love him and I miss him so much that I have this constant pain in my chest...I've tried keeping my mind busy, talking about it with friends, doing things that I usually enjoy but nothing helps...I can't eat or sleep...and can't stop crying...He is doing fine, he's out to clubs and bars every night meeting new friends...I tried to talk to him cos we'd always talked about everything but it seems he's turned into a totally different person...it's like he just doesn't care anymore...He only said that I should move on and go out more...But I've already tried it and it doesn't work...I'm desperate...I just need this pain, at least the physical one, to go away...does anyone know what might help?My mind is stuck on him and all my body hurts...it feels as if there is a knife inside me tearing me apart...anyone been there?
2007-03-12 10:00:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, been there. Please don't let it destroy you. The pain is real & it hurts a lot. Some people are lucky enough to never hurt like that but I do know where you are. It takes quite some time to get over & maybe it's different for everyone. Get out, smile, meet new people. Do all that you can to know that YOU deserve better and he was not the one for you.
2007-03-12 16:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by "Raine" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rite, first, I my opinion, You take a long hot shower, and think
of all the negative things about the relationship? there must be some... second,, hey,,maybe he dose not care any more
!!! so get a life ...YOU ARE BETTER THAN HIM ???
wot about going further with your life ? A COMPLETE TURNAROUND ?? (if you have kids, there are many people
who will help,.. try Citizens Advice, Sally Army (YES !)
Smiths, or anyone who will listen, make it your Goal !! and
maybe , you will help a load of other people in your position
!! please find the strength .......Lynn, good luck..
2007-03-12 18:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by landgirl60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea... Its really hard.... I would see a doctor... They might be able to help with the physical syptoms, but the emotional ones are the hardest sometimes... Go see a doctor... I know what it's like to not wanna eat or sleep and its hard to think. i know it too well.
2007-03-12 17:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by larua_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a panic attack. symptoms can be quite severe, just relax and remember that things will work out for the best in the end. the main thing for you is to get the panic (if it is panic) under control. perhaps share your feelings with someone that isnt involved in the breakup like a therapist.
2007-03-12 17:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by spongebobs biggest fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there... still there. if you can't talk to him about it i have found that it helps to release emotion in other ways eg poetry art or music. i write a poem every couple of days, have been for months and i still cope!
2007-03-13 05:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by deanfriedmanfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do when heartache becomes physical pain?
DIE ???
LOL
2007-03-12 18:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
been there .....................done that.............................experience that .................
it does get better but with time its like grieving , take your time.
Huggs
2007-03-12 17:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Byte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋