After 2 years of marriage and a 2 month old daughter, my wife decided she has lost all love for me and wants to be taken care of by her parents since life is to stressful. Her attitude changed 3 months in into the pregancy and I thought I would change once her hormones calmed down, but I was wrong.... Should I keep waiting and trying tor should I start to prepare for the worse.
2007-03-12 09:57:42 · 12 answers · asked by Nirvana Fan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep trying but prepare for the worst.I've been there and I can tell you that it REALLY sucks,but you have to keep on with life.Get up everyday thankful for the day and know that you have a daughter to help raise and care for.Don't let your problems with your wife get in the way of you and your daughter having a loving relationship.
Two things to keep in mind - They can't take away your birthday and what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
Good Luck and Keep the faith,my brother
2007-03-12 10:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Michael R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So drasctict she wants a divorce? To be honest I don't think her hormones after only two months are back to normal. Dealing with a newborn child and personal issues takes some time to get used to. A child can change your whole life. After all it's not just YOUR LIFE anymore you have a baby to think about....Have you considered counseling? Don't give up so soon, you must try.
2007-03-12 17:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prepare for the worse. Once she knows she can keep running back to mommy she is not going to stop and things will be very hard for her when mommy is no longer there. Just have to pick up your feet babe and move on. one foot in front of the other and it will hurt but someday you will find a true lady who can hang things out with you and not give up and turn home to mommy.
2007-03-12 17:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She didnt mention divorce yet. Perhaps expressing love to each other and sharing the housekeeping and taking care of the baby by turns is missing in this relationship. Between your lines I could feel that she could not take the strain.
2007-03-12 17:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best to go on because you will look like the bad guy dont jump into a relationship but be there for your child take her out and if she still love you that fine but dont push it and when she want to talk she will i know i walk aways from 12 years marriage and 3 kids but i never give my kids up and i now have my two boys full time good luck
2007-03-12 17:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prepare for the worse.
Just be glad only 2 years were spent. I spent 7 years being with the wrong person before she left me.
2007-03-12 17:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Papa Mac DaddyJoe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She still could be hormonal. An in-balance doesn't disappear after the birth of the child.
However, my advice to you is to prepare for the worse. Get your own things in order and focus on your child.
2007-03-12 17:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hold your head high, do right by your kid and let the chips fall where they may. Being a good dad is the only thing that matters in the long run.
2007-03-12 17:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think you should give her time, let her go back to her parents if she feels more secure - she must be young otherwise she would be able to cope without her parents - to me it sounds like she may be going through post natal depression....and needs counselling
2007-03-12 17:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by boonoora 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's NOT looking good...get prepared!
2007-03-12 17:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋