my sister is 13 yrs old a thinks she is pregnant!!!! She posted on her like a hour ago!!!!! how should i help her prepare for the worse should i let her watch my baby for a couple of hours witout my help or wat!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 09:55:07 · 8 answers · asked by Proud Mommy 2 Cameron♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I just found out dat the boi she is pregnant by is5yrs older than her wat should i do bout this!!!!!1 Oh yea to the person who said where i parents are we don't have parents i am her parent a care for my sister for my self!!!!!
2007-03-12 11:51:45 · update #1
stay calm and be as supportive as possible. just remember how you felt when you were pregnant and talk to her about everything. talk her to a doctor to make sure so that the both of you don't over react. if she isn't pregnant do your best to encourage her to be more careful and to not continue to have sex and not see the 18yo anymore. if she is pregnant give her advice and lessons using your baby. i.e. changing diapers, holding, feeding, rocking, but try not to stress her out too much as that wont be good for the baby or her. also let her know the joy that a baby can be as well... making it sound horrible won't help her. good luck hun!
2007-03-13 05:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by jessicamichelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it is really special for her you are supporting her it would mean a lot!! You need to take her to a doctor and find out before you stress too much!! If she is you need to get her and the father of the baby together and talk about this baby and whats the best thing to do!! You being her big sister and having a baby of your own can give her really good advice it sounds like she needs you!! Dont forget about her! If she wants to keep the baby then you should arrange a meeting with yours and the father of the babys parents and talk it out.
2007-03-12 18:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by sweet redhead! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... I cant even imagine being a mom at 13 or 16. I wasnt even ready at 23.
Well first off.. she needs to get to a doctor to find out if she is or not. Then she needs to decide what she wants to do.. she has options.
Good luck to you both!
2007-03-12 17:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Christie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, before panicking, make sure. Go see a doctor and discuss all of the options with her. You know what it's like to be a teen mom, so you're well placed to help her out and advise her.
2007-03-12 17:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, ur 16 with a baby, and she's 13 and pregnant? some parents you got.
2007-03-12 16:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by i totally agree with you!! not 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im curious but, did u ever regret ever gettin pregnant? u can help ur 13yo sister by giving her some advice u learned
2007-03-12 18:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by burning ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah like the person below me sayed...what parents...but spending time with the child will improve her decisoins and help her out!
2007-03-12 17:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Shan-Marie <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the dude is five yrs older then her then i don't even kno wat to say
2007-03-12 19:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋