i love Noah more than anything, but i hate the looks people give me. I'm 17, even though i look younger (like 15 or 16). how can i stop others from judging me all the time. epecially when i didn't do anything. i'm a good kid. i don't do drugs or drink or sleep around. i hate it when people sterotype me with all the other "bad teenagers", help!!!!
2007-03-12 09:53:46 · 23 answers · asked by I'm 17 and ME!!!!!! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Really it's nobody's business, but you could try making a couple of cute t-shirts, "Big Sister and proud of it!", and "Cutest Baby Brother Ever!" or something to that effect.
Other than that, try not to take offense; people are people after all, and often jump to harsh judgements before they have enough info in a given situation, *especially* where babies are involved! Take such comments with a humorous attitude, and feel free to correct them light-heartedly if you feel like it. And if you don't, just let them walk on stewing in their ignorance and judgemental attitude. They're only hurting themselves, in the end.
2007-03-12 10:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by LaundryGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I had a Mchanical baby over the long weekend as my school project ( which cried and looks likea real baby), and the looks I got from peopel were really mean, someone even called me a skank lol! But if truth be told I didnt care, really it was a lot of fun pretending to be a 16 year old mother and getting all this attention from the public. So dont care!
2007-03-12 11:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what others think, you know that truth ans the ones that love you know the truth. But if you are out and they say something like "Oh what a cute baby" say "yeah he is my little brother and I just adore him" or "I know, I just love my little brother and he is such a good baby"
But I know what you mean, I had my daughter when I was 20, she is now 18 and people say that I LOOK 26 so when they find out that she is my kid, they get that look like that slut had a baby when she was a baby herself - I HATE IT SO MUCH!
2007-03-12 12:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the t-shirt idea....but alas, the world we live in is so full of teen mothers that you are automatically stero-typed. I have a 12 year-old that doesn't look 12, she looks 18....When she goes around with my 5 year old people ask her if she's her mother and she smiles proudly and says...NOPE, SHE'S MY LITTLE SISTER.
Screw the people that give you funny looks....YOU know what YOU do, THEY DON'T. If it makes you THAT uncomfortable, make hats, t-shirts, pins, whatever. But DON'T let them get to you....THEY'RE the one's with the problem, not you.....Chin up, and I commend you on being such a loving big sister.
2007-03-15 17:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by kogoinnutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile really brightly at those people. It'll confuse them, and it's fun.
Personally, I always thought it was really fun to be mistaken for the mother of a sibling, cousin, etc. Good practice too, as I want kids in just a few years and I know I'll be getting that look a lot anyway. My mom still got those looks when she had me at 22.
2007-03-12 11:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People should not do that! I have a 2 year old sister and I am 13 and people are like starring at me like is she yours? No but even if she was I mean its okay for teens to have kids. I mean my aunt was 16 when she had my cousin, big deal. Inorge them!
2007-03-12 10:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Emily Answers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend has little sister and im 16. i carry her around and ppl give me looks too. and worse than that i have alil junk in the trunk so with the babys weight and such i look like im having another! just try to ignore it, there isnt much u can do
2007-03-16 10:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by Kait 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was an episode of the show "The Family Guy" on this subject.
But, alas, real life isn't like a cartoon.
My advice: ignore people. If they want to stare or make comments, let them. If they ask you, smile and chuckle. "No, he's my brother."
2007-03-12 09:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
actually it could be pretty fun to play around with by making people think he is yours. it sounds wrong but i do it all the time with my lil brother who is 1 and 1/2. especially old ladys. dont let other people get you down. if they have enough time on their hands to notice you they are stupid and dont have a life
2007-03-12 10:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋